Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Oh, this girl is fine as hell though. Everywhere she walks, men break their necks or start simping immediately. The difference between a 10 and a 8.5 is, like I said, 10s are actively recruited and sought after by rich men. 10s are doing Epstein Island shvt while 8.5s are working regular jobs and paying for most of their bills lol.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I don't believe in 10s. It's admittedly a rather subjective statement - you can take the prettiest woman in the world and arbitrarily assign her a 9.9 or whatever you like. But no such thing as 10s is part of my personal philosophy. No woman is literally perfect.
For many years, every time I walk into a public place I scan the room looking for the most attractive women. I'm lucky if I find 10% of the females attractive enough that I would be interested in getting to know them.
If men were invisible, they would be able to rape and steal from women with ease. It's not about visibility. It's about presence.
Ironic that you disputed this in my thread, but then come here and admit that hot women can be insufferable, too. Ha!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That'll be $1k for the night. At minimum.
Yeah, I think the video is interesting, and does serve to explain a few things, but I don't believe in the black pill to the extent that Wheat Waffles does. If the video were literally true, I couldn't explain myself. I certainly don't consider myself in the top 10% of men looks-wise. But I've always been able to get women, outside of a nasty dry spell I had in my early 20s. I think I was too scrawny at the time. Things got better when I got into lifting. I don't have an Abercrombie or bodybuilder physique, but bulking up definitely helped me.
people that say they don’t believe in 10s probably live in some suburb in Ohio lol. I said the exact same thing until I left bum frvck Tennessee.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No one is perfect, that's a fact.
Let’s say you rent a hypothetical 10/10 as an escort for a few hours. What are you going to be looking for to deduct this 1/10th of a point from her? Are you going to be deducting points from teeth size? Imperfect eyebrows?
I object to the premise on its face. If you label someone a 10, then you meet someone better, how do you give them extra points? Once you label someone a 10, there's nowhere to go but down. Post me a pic of a perfect 10 if you think they exist. They might be a 10 to you, but I bet someone would rate them lower. I know I would, because I don't believe in labeling humans as 10s. And damn few even get the 9.
Here's why there are no perfect 10 women.....because every single beautiful girl that ever graced the pages of Maxim or Playboy or Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition back when they were the standard had been air brushed to some extent or Posed in a position to make their body look the best it can. They were 9's made to look like 10's.
even when they’re all done up they’re still not 10s
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
is it the same for men. lower quality men go to the apps ?? so it ends up being a big pool of low quality.
I'll never forget PoF. Lowest of the barrel there. I am not surprised even the ugliest get called on there.
You're dodging the question, though. If she's not a 10, what exactly are you taking the point off for? Her teeth? Eyebrows? Nose? Smile? What's the flaw?
I cannot really argue because I've never been into the stereotypical Playboy blonde look, nor have I ever looked at a Playboy magazine. American blondes generally aren't my type.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
