Marriage ready set to go ,only to find wifey in bed with her colleague

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

It sounds like he tried to go back to the blue pill and allowed himself to get oneitis.

 

[zekko]

Real story.
Ready for marriage. Dressed bought. Invitations send.
Only to come home and literally find your soon to be wifey fecking her" bwest fwiend " co worker .
Sometimes men get their redpilll stuffed down their throat with force...

I know a similar story, might be a little worse even:
A friend of mine was in the service, came home and got married one weekend, then went back to the military. Got time off to come home and surprise his wife the next weekend, and walked in on her having sex with another dude. Talk about a short honeymoon.

 

[Gamisch]

All true. When ya think about it, it's actually surprising that divorce rates around the globe aren't 100%, given that we're a species NOT hardwired for long-term monogamy

And that's the " mystery " isn't it? One woman remains loyal to a guy, the same woman cheats on another. Or you could say the next woman remain loyal for whatever reason.

Because despite what we think, there still isn't a waterproof solution despite force to extract a woman's loyalty. Not even money can guarantee anything.

 

[Gamisch]

It sounds like he tried to go back to the blue pill and allowed himself to get oneitis.

I geuss he never left the blue pill.
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I do have to say we shouldn't underestimate the pain this will cause to a man. It might take years to get over something like this.

The question is when ti cut ties when you sense something is wrong. In this case, dude did however bought a house with her already....that's a 30 years contract apart from kids.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Why you think its bs?

Sometimes the truth is much crazier than the movies. I can vow that this is 100.000% true. I have no incentive to ragebait you, its rather a....warning I geuss?

To elaborate;dude saw the car and felt something wasn't right. If someone does something shady 100 times, it takes only one time to get caught.

It's YOUR cognitive dissonance calling bs on this, HOPING its rarebit and bs so your " future wife" won't never evah evah do something like this. Meanwhile, the protagonist probably would say the same untill he found out. And I can 100% confirm this is true ,and that dude is mentally broken due to this....

Matter of fact; I got 1000 more stories like this, all from an extremely reliable source .What about this one; Woman wants open relationship. Sees a new man for one and a half year while being in a relationship. Now she wants the side dude to move in while having kids and a man(married). Current hubby "doesn't feel comfortable " and complains" that she is more actively engaged with other partners than he is".

You might need to get in tune with reality because that's where the REAL shyte with REAL people happens. And its so much crazier than you can imagine. Your innocent virgin might have skme crazy fantasies and the.lpnger you stay the bigger the chance that she will OVERTLY tell you about it.

This story is thread worthy on its own lol.

Then come out and say it's anecdotal lmao. No need to insist on being vague.

This sounds like those rage bait stories that many red pill accounts push on X (former twitter). True or not, I call BS on this. Women (or men for that matter) can't hide who they really are for more than a couple of months. So in cases like this, either the guy is dumb as a rock or much more likely he knew exactly what he was getting into but for whatever reason he decided to risk it and go ahead. It's like knowingly walking through a minefield and then manifesting shock and disbelief when you get your leg blown off.

It's not ragebait it's trustbait. Just trust me bro, don't dare question.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

Weak fathers equal slutty daughters. Guy shouldn't enter teddy bear mode with "Sure honey, go for the drink with your male friend"

One woman told me once in convo that female should have the right to have male friends. I told her that I could never be with such a woman and that only male friend woman need is her partner. The passive aggression in her eyes and the way she spoke with me about it was vivid.

 

[Gamisch]

Then come out and say it's anecdotal lmao. No need to insist on being vague.



It's not ragebait it's trustbait. Just trust me bro, don't dare question.

???

Everything om the forum is trust me bro and mostly antidotical. People say they're sleeping with 3 girls per weekend and next you gobble their nuts ,thats not " trust me bro"? And if you dont wanna believe it that's fine bro!

There's even a trusted member chiming in saying it happened to him PERSONALLY ,you muppet! ( edit I'm sorry its actually TWO trusted members telling a similar story)

You need pictures and documents from him as well? What are you worried about ,if you dont like the topic dont react and keep it moving.

Good thing you limited us to view your profile by the way. Now let's get back on topic shall we?

 

[Gamisch]

Weak fathers equal slutty daughters. Guy shouldn't enter teddy bear mode with "Sure honey, go for the drink with your male friend"

One woman told me once in convo that female should have the right to have male friends. I told her that I could never be with such a woman and that only male friend woman need is her partner. The passive aggression in her eyes and the way she spoke with me about it was vivid.

Great point. Unfortunately the depth on this forum gets less and less now the incels gaining in numbers. But that's another topic...

I'd even add to your message that at some point you might even want her to cut off female friends.

If a woman insists on having male friends and you dont feel comfortable with it, the best thing to do is to cut her off immediately.

 

[Gamisch]

Then come out and say it's anecdotal lmao. No need to insist on being vague.



It's not ragebait it's trustbait. Just trust me bro, don't dare question.

Trust me bro implies something is said that is beyond the scope of reality.

If you are really "bout that life" and dealt with enough women, you'd know that a man catching his wife cheating isn't beyond the scope of reality at all.

Perhaps you should touch a little more grass and actually talk to real people some more.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I think it's the wrong conclusion.

The actual issue is that his behavior over the long course of knowing her and the relationship lowered her respect for him enough that she felt this was acceptable and was OK with doing it.

Trying to hide a woman from other men is simply trying in vain to hide the issues that should be brought to the surface and worked on, not buried.

At the end of the day, too many men are more worried about how other men will behave around their women instead of how they are behaving around her.

Men hang around your woman either because they want your woman or they had a past with your woman and now are keeping her on arms length optionality / need someone to get emotional satisfaction from / want to play cat and mouse with her to get back together. I’ve experienced this first hand. We have a very simple rule in our relationship, male friends aren’t a thing. It shouldn’t take too much explanation either.

 

[retardedautist2020]

It's a forum about relationships and women.

No sh*t but my point is that it’s a topic that’s been beat to death.

 

[BadBoy89]

The moral of the story might be something like; dont allow one ince of friction from another man, as it might grow into a full blown affair right in front of your eyes. Yet, you won't stop it as there will ALWAYS be another man aiming at your woman...

Agree if the woman is hot and of the age where she can get pregnant easily.

But if the woman is of the age where she cannot pregnant easily, I don’t think any man is going to care,