“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Any other OG's still on SS from around 2009-2017

Crissco

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Hey all,

Been a long long time since i've been here. My life has taken a big turn in many ways, mainly for the better. But if it wasn't for sosuave i probably would not be where I am today. This site has brought me so much joy with the world of woman I cant thank sosuave enough. I wanted to see if anyone from around the time I joined / was active still around. I joined in 2009 and was active until about 2019-2020. If anyone remembers my handle...Comment.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

nicksaiz65

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I guess I’m an OG now? Haha. I’ve been on since 2017, lurking before that. I do remember seeing you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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FlexpertHamilton

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wouldnt OG be the guys like rollo who were posting here around the turn of the century? I'm pretty sure this website was created in the late 90s if not early 00s
 

Crissco

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On behalf of SoSuave you are most welcome. Its great to see men get something positive out of this website.
Read the DJ bible my dude. I literally scoured every bit of positive (in my mind) information i could and internalized it. Maybe things are different now in ways since I have a LTR, but still this site is great for picking up woman, like all of PUA was. Keeping them.....Thats something we all have to learn on our own.


DJ Bible:
http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Clockwerk50

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Read the DJ bible my dude. I literally scoured every bit of positive (in my mind) information i could and internalized it. Maybe things are different now in ways since I have a LTR, but still this site is great for picking up woman, like all of PUA was. Keeping them.....Thats something we all have to learn on our own.


DJ Bible:
http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/
This link is gold. A mod should sticky this information and make it mandatory reading for rookies, or at least encourage them to become familiar with it.
 

Doctor Europeo

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This link is gold. A mod should sticky this information and make it mandatory reading for rookies, or at least encourage them to become familiar with it.
It kind of already is a sticky:

 

Dash Riprock

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Hey all,

Been a long long time since i've been here. My life has taken a big turn in many ways, mainly for the better. But if it wasn't for sosuave i probably would not be where I am today. This site has brought me so much joy with the world of woman I cant thank sosuave enough. I wanted to see if anyone from around the time I joined / was active still around. I joined in 2009 and was active until about 2019-2020. If anyone remembers my handle...Comment.
Been here since 2005.
 

BeExcellent

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The old lady's been here since 2015. Good to see you too @Roober & hope life is treating you well!!
 

Slowhandluke

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Hey all,

Been a long long time since i've been here. My life has taken a big turn in many ways, mainly for the better. But if it wasn't for sosuave i probably would not be where I am today. This site has brought me so much joy with the world of woman I cant thank sosuave enough. I wanted to see if anyone from around the time I joined / was active still around. I joined in 2009 and was active until about 2019-2020. If anyone remembers my handle...Comment.

You should expound on this :). I'm sure not ALL advice here is good, or applicable to everyone :) I'm sure some generalities are though. But it would be probably interesting to hear the perspective from a "longtime" patron :)
 

Tiguere

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I also joined back in 2009.. Was never a frequent poster but i came here daily after a bad breakup back in 2008 to learn female nature. Since then I got married... Have a 9 year old daughter sadly my wife passed away from health issues back in 2022)

My favorite posters from back then were Kontroller X.. Jophil(sadly passed away)... Desdinova... playherman... Many others
 

Bible_Belt

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I had to look, but I got here in 05. I remember the moment that I had a hot girl walk out of my place because I only knew how to act like I wasn't interested, and she got bored. She shut the door and I walked straight to the desktop computer and googled how to get girls, because I knew I had a lot to learn.
 
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