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Plinco's cold approach journal

CoolWave1331

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Kudos on your commitment Plinco- cold approaching is definitely not an easy thing to do.

Only advice I can give is to improve in the area(s) that you feel you need to & try not to take the rejections to heart. Many times you'll say and do the right things and are still met with "no". It's all about finding the people that are interested in what you're selling- when you do find them, it's easy.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Kudos on your commitment Plinco- cold approaching is definitely not an easy thing to do.

Only advice I can give is to improve in the area(s) that you feel you need to & try not to take the rejections to heart. Many times you'll say and do the right things and are still met with "no". It's all about finding the people that are interested in what you're selling- when you do find them, it's easy.
Thanks for the encouragement! Sometimes I get a lot of the opposite.
 

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I saw a 9/10 walk into a store adjacent to the one I was walking in. If I had the right amount of confidence I would have approached her.

There was another woman in the store which was walking towards me. I asked her if I was in her way, but she politely/dismissively said I was not.

There was also another woman who I initially wanted to approach, but when she turned around, I could see the wrinkles in her face, and with the mature facial expression, which instantly turned me off. I'm guessing she was 28-30
 

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@We_ArE_VeNOM

I'm going to practice the mode one approach for night game, but I have a good reason not to do it for day game.
 

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Hey @Plinco, your journal is one of the reasons I decided to join this site. Huge respect for you and what you've been doing.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Plinco

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Hey @Plinco, your journal is one of the reasons I decided to join this site. Huge respect for you and what you've been doing.
As long as you are willing to do the work, I'll be happy to help.

Also, I appreciate the positive affirmation.
 
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