Recent content by zen511

I don't really think I have fallen for any behavior. I actually wanted to get a reaction out of her to see where we stand and what her intentions are. I currently have another love interest so I am really not looking to get back in. Having her solely as a friend does have some advantages...

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marinetti excellent reply and I appreciate it very much..... I must clarify one thing.... I did not lay it out that it was an open relationship, she more or intimiated that it would be, when we started going out she was seeing another guy "casually" although that soon fizzled out. I am pretty...

So I have been seeing this chick for about two-three months, we are in an open relationship which is fine by both her and I at the moment. However, recently we have been seeing so much of each other is it almost like a bf/gf kind of thing. In addition she referred to us having sex as “making...

ok makes sense, I am going to see how that reacts. So what kind of mixed signals should I use. Like when she calls just not return her call for a few days, or would it be better to like pass on her asking to go out... is that too extreme. I have been so neurotic lately, bc luckly I have ran into...

yeah, thats the way I took it myself. However, she has been busy with a deadline so I was not expecting much the last date. However, I keep getting mixed signals which is messing with my game. I am actually quite annoyed she did not return my call from the other day yet, but really have no right...

its a four hour drive each way. More or less NY to Philly, and yeah a hotel would be the logical thing.

any1 have a take on this

Backstory if it matters, 3rd date with my other current interest and we get on the topic of an event going on up in New England. I more or less said something like we can make a day of it if we wanted, and she follows up we can actually make a whole weekend out of it if you wanted... Now we...

Ok so she called today and flat out said that she was really impressed by how upfront I was, she was like most guys would either try to play it off that its nothing or just make an assumption. She then asked if we were still on for tonight...... Anyways, was this a possible **** test? Or...

ehehe I was in a silimar situation as you a few months back. Honnestly, if you want a screw go for it. However, if you are woried about knocking her up or like in my situation she was a wacko who assumed if we ****ed we were going out, shy away. But the fact you find her dumber than a bag of...

so tommorow when we go out, do I apologize if I came off the wrong way, or just take it in stride.

Ok was supposed to go out with this girl for the fourth time tonight. She called about a half hour ago which 2 hours before we were supposed to go out and more or less says she is not feeling well but asks if we could go out tommorow. I am unsure of tommorow becuase I do have other things to...

Maybe I am completly offbase, maybe this has been discussed in the past, but I am simply wondering now that these methods seem to have become mainstream and visible to the public how will it affect us. I am just throwing this out there in a rather zen like stoned state, but if we viewed...

Yes you guys are exactly right, I have no business who calls which is why I did not say or do anything, which is more or less my first inkling. Basically all I was more or less was asking if we were bf/gf in due time I basically just say something that I.A.F.Y.B. mentioned. Her actions seem...