So I have been seeing this chick for about two-three months, we are in an open relationship which is fine by both her and I at the moment. However, recently we have been seeing so much of each other is it almost like a bf/gf kind of thing. In addition she referred to us having sex as “making love” the other day. She also seemed to refer to us in a more forward looking manner than before the past two weeks. So with thoes comments passed I asked her how she saw us, because to me those kind of words could have two completely different meanings.
Anyways she dismissed it that no we are “dating” and there is no need to rush anything. She apologized if her wording “scared” me, so I played along and dismissed it as nothing more than me wanting to be on the same page because of the way she was talking. I more or less made it seem like she was sending signals.
The crux of the situation here is more or less I want to segway this open relationship to an exclusive one. I am reaching the point where I can see this being a worthwhile relationship however, I do not want to come on too strong or possibly scare her away.
I like it when it was open since it was fun for me although I do not feel as satisfied as I could be in an exclusive one. I feel as if I don’t want to invest too much more time into her if there always is the option there for either of us to date other people. It just does not feel kosher to me after a few months of dating. Hmm am I completely off base here or am I making sense……
Anyways she dismissed it that no we are “dating” and there is no need to rush anything. She apologized if her wording “scared” me, so I played along and dismissed it as nothing more than me wanting to be on the same page because of the way she was talking. I more or less made it seem like she was sending signals.
The crux of the situation here is more or less I want to segway this open relationship to an exclusive one. I am reaching the point where I can see this being a worthwhile relationship however, I do not want to come on too strong or possibly scare her away.
I like it when it was open since it was fun for me although I do not feel as satisfied as I could be in an exclusive one. I feel as if I don’t want to invest too much more time into her if there always is the option there for either of us to date other people. It just does not feel kosher to me after a few months of dating. Hmm am I completely off base here or am I making sense……