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    Got dumped. Need help.

    I agree with the previous posts, especially Igetit's. You really have to cut the dead wood off. You have to hide everyhting that meant anything, pics, letters, phone number, friends on any social network site. Time to cut ties with thoughts, do not go back in time. It is going to be a long...
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    I broke up with her. Tell me some of your break up stories and how to recover.

    Better it happened now. All I can say is keep busy and if you can't stop thinking about it, try to get even busier. There are more women out there, and more freedom when you are single. Take care, just my two bits.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Don't call her on her Bday. I went through the same thing. Go chill out with one of your buddys that is aware of the situation. Just hang out all day with your bud. Hide your phone or lock it up. You will just show that you are available for her still.
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    8 months of silence now this.

    Thanks for the responses. I am laying low, and out of sight. I agree my response was polite, and to the point. I don't want to know how she took it, but it is what it is. I am glad I still have things to keep me busy, I was painting this weekend. I know what road I just came from. Personally...
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    8 months of silence now this.

    I did text something similiar and something black and white. I text her saying, "my family and I are doing well, I hope you and your family are also doing well. God bless you and your family". I waited a day. That way it shows I am not waiting like a lap dog and responding right away. I...
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    8 months of silence now this.

    I agree. I am just going to lay low and be black and white. I don't want to go down that road. I already know that going back to someone has a high failure rate anyway. Thanks everyone.
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    8 months of silence now this.

    Yes Kailex, that's the one.There was allot involved. Stresses of culture and being able to be with each other freely. I only met her cousins and was friends with her sister. All in all, I think we fell out of love the last year of our relationship. After we broke up, I found out she had met...
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    8 months of silence now this.

    Hello forum members, I am in the need of some advice. Long story short, my EX (of 5 yr LTR)texted me last night while I was on the phone with another gal. There has been absolutely no communication for about 8 months. During those 8 months I have relearned who I am and where I am at in life...
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    Plenty of Fish - nothing hurts your confidence more...

    I agree plenty of AWs on there. They just like to be wanted and like the attention they may not get during the day or at home. Who knows. I have had some luck, but recently deleted my profile. I have gone on out a few times from girls on there. One I was with for 2 months or so, but I ended...
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    Pregnancy scare

    Even if you get an over the counter test and it comes up positive, go to the clinic to confirm. She is going to have to take a test either way. Don't get spooked, scared or anything. Just be serious about getting the test out of the way. The sooner the better. I have had a few scares in the...
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    What is your opinion on my NC?

    Got it. There is a difference, I see it now. So it looks like I have moved on in the sense of not contacting. Had to realize I made it this far. Guess it could have been worse like making all those phone calls and pleading. I am glad it wasn't like that, it would have been messy. But thanks for...
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    What is your opinion on my NC?

    Hello forum. I just wanted to know your opinion on my NC. I have currently gone 5+ months of NC. 6 months of the break, just a 5 texts and 1 phone call right after the break. The phone call was just to call her play on someone I found out about, and her reasons for the break ended up being false...
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    are religious differences a problem?

    I believe that if it is a similiar religion like maybe Lutheran/Catholic/Christian type it can work. It's when you really mix it up like Christian with a Jew or Muslim, it can be hairy and sometimes a roller coaster ride. If it is a true mixed like the second listed above, all I can say is...
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    the break

    I would just say a simple "what's up" and that's all. That would be if eye contact is made. No need to be cruel or rude, show maturity. In doing just that, you don't leave a door open and don't show any bitterness. It should be more like an old friend salutation. That's it, just plain and...
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