Recent content by themusicman

I would say in general I see people as "having it together" more than I do. I feel awkward in group settings where everyone else seems to feel comfortable. I get told all the time I'm a good looking guy, but- cliché though it may sound- I do struggle with my height. It's difficult to feel like...

That's the thing man- I really don't know. I know that I should have a lot to offer people but whenever I enter into an interaction I just get this feeling like I'm inferior to the other person in some way.

I'm pretty low right now, and I'm hoping that you guys can give me advice. Here's the rub. I have a very lucrative engineering job that I've been successful at. While I'm only 5'6", I'm 150lb and 8% body fat. I get compliments all the time on my physique. I also pursue my passion of musical...

Thanks bradd. No PEDs (or history of them), we're WADA tested randomly. I think you're onto something with too high of a work/recovery ratio with the lifting. I'll drop the volume slightly and see if it helps

As Attack mentioned, set/rep scheme doesn't matter nearly as much as following a consistent program that progressively gets harder. Having said that, I'm a fan of 5x5 for muscle that is both highly functional and aesthetically pleasing. Google Stronglifts 5x5 for a free and incredibly simple...

Hey fellas. So I'm lucky enough to be in a relationship with this AMAZING girl. We've been dating for about five months now and it's going great. But I've been having a lot of problems with a low desire for sex. It's definitely not an issue of attraction. She's gorgeous, banging body and great...

Good feedback guys, and I agree with you. The end goal should be to have a great life regardless, but sometimes that isn't apparent. And the point of the "be happy without her" part wasn't to show her that but more to show yourself that you don't need anybody to be happy. When you're stuck on a...

Hey guys. So I met this girl a couple weekends ago and for a couple weeks just could not get her out of my head. I work through my problems by writing about them, so I wrote a blog post on this topic and wanted to share it with you. Hopefully some other guys get some use out of it. I'm planning...

Sweet. Both you guys in US?

Use intelligence to get power. Start a business, get a bada$$ job with a great paycheck, etc. You shouldn't act like a caveman to try and get girls. Intelligence is sexy AS LONG AS it's wrapped in an alpha, action oriented personality.

Basically after reading Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich" (dudes, if you haven't read it, pick it up NOW. 99 cents on the kindle store) I'm inspired to start having some legit talks with guys in a similar boat to me. Basically I'm 23 and currently considering whether I want to keep my 9-to-5...

This is it man. I guess I shouldn't have said forget, I don't want to be celibate or anything, but I want them at the bottom of my priority list. I really don't think I'm craving affection, I think I've just had it in my head so long that having women hang off of you is a crucial element of...

Hey guys, first poster here. I know where I want to go in life and the things that I want to achieve. And, in fact, I truly believe that I want those things more than I want women. I can honestly say that if I were pursuing my dreams I wouldn't care if I was single the rest of my life. But...