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    Marking their territory?

    I know I'm bringing up a dead thread, but once my friends knew the hickey was there, I stopped trying to hide it. I still put product on it (until the bruise lightened), but stopped raising my collar or wearing different shirts. For work meetings I would cover it the best I could, but otherwise...
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    Marking their territory?

    Good to know. Guess I've been claimed. ;)
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    Marking their territory?

    I was hooking up with a HB I've been dating last night. After we were finished and got out of bed, her jaw dropped - we learned she gave me two hickeys, one on either side of my neck. Despite my efforts to cover it up with concealer and raising the collar on my shirt, my coworkers quickly...
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    FR: HB tries to stun me with new date, I end up laughing

    I'm paranoid even bringing up people I am currently dating in general to others outside of my closest friends. So, I take your advice to heart and am not letting her - or really, anyone, into that circle. People get the basic facts and that's it. As for tonight, things were fine. I treated her...
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    FR: HB tries to stun me with new date, I end up laughing

    2 different people. The wing woman is another girl I work with who is in a 2-year relationship. She's new to our company, but most of the other guys treat her based off her looks alone. That stuff doesn't phase me anymore.
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    FR: HB tries to stun me with new date, I end up laughing

    Oh absolutely. It was a work event, so I was going to see her regardless. Ironically, her presence last night turned into an asset for me. How? The HB9 that was with us picked up on the girl's act very quickly and, with her right there, tells me, "Hanging out with you is so much fun. There are...
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    FR: HB tries to stun me with new date, I end up laughing

    The entire situation was uncomfortable, and not just for me. She was certainly insecure. If I were in that guy’s shoes, I would have deleted the number before I got home. Someone asked how they met and they both started mumbling until I said it was probably Bumble (they conceded I was right).
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    FR: HB tries to stun me with new date, I end up laughing

    I posted last week about two girls I am talking to and how their recent behavior was puzzling. I'm more or less figuring it out. One of the girls returned to normalcy. The other one is why I'm making the post. Girl #1 I've been seeing for just over a month. Things are really good and we're...
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    HB who previously turned me down acting strangely

    Well well. Nothing ever comes easy, does it? Over the past few days: B has barely texted me. We slept together a few times over the weekend and to my knowledge, there weren't any issues. But throughout this week, I've barely heard from B when she would typically ping my phone several times a...
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    HB who previously turned me down acting strangely

    This is what A has turned into. She hasn't invited me out to meet any of her friends and hasn't been a wing woman in any way. She is, as Amante Silvestre says, a liability.
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    HB who previously turned me down acting strangely

    Very insightful feedback! Appreciate all the responses. A couple of thoughts: I always have a little chip on my shoulder from people who have said I'm not good enough or turn me down, either personally or professionally. As much as I want to rub it in A's face in some fashion, I'm not sure...
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    HB who previously turned me down acting strangely

    A couple of months ago, there was a HB (let's name her "A") I was very interested in. We went out a couple of times, but ultimately she LJBF'd me and did so in no uncertain terms. We still get along well, but that may be a product of the fact we work together and hang out in the same social...
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    When do you decide to have the DTR talk?

    The texts and nudes she sent me this morning suggest otherwise. :cool: I appreciate the advice. I feel there is no scripted way for these to happen - asked a few friends how their DTR talks started, and got a whole variety of answers (he started it, she started it, etc.)
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    When do you decide to have the DTR talk?

    Based off your own experiences, what checkmarks needs to be checked before you and a HB talk about your relationship or becoming an exclusive couple? I ask because I'm at that crossroads now. I've been seeing a girl steadily over the past several weeks (we meet before the holidays, but she and...
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    Performance Anxiety

    Found this thread at a good time too. Went out with a cute girl just the other day, we went back to my place and...nothing. I couldn't get it up. I figure it has to be mental because I had no problems a couple of weeks ago with a ONS. But because I have a habit of letting these issues get to my...
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