Recent content by ThatGuyOverThere

So I've been regularly lifting for about a year and a half, and I'm currently 5'9/145 pounds. I lift twice a week, and for chest I do flat bench one day, and incline bench the other day, with decline bench both days. I do three sets of each, going up ten pounds each set, and I try to get about...

Last year, my roommate had a huge crush on this one girl and ended up falling in love with her (at least he told her he loved her). They had a "thing" that lasted about a couple weeks but he got too needy/clingy so she told him she wanted to just be friends. Well it's nearly a year later and...

Yeah I'm not that worried about losing my cool, I'm just a little ticked off right now because of the boyfriend roadblock that suddenly showed up, but I'll get over it. I'm still getting good vibes from her, but I'm not sure I want to be a homewrecker just yet. If she's willing to ditch her...

What **** Test? Are you suggesting the boyfriend isn't real? I checked her facebook and he's very real, though it took a little digging because she doesn't have "in a relationship" on her profile. She's a freshman in college so I'm thinking she's just going through the mistake all freshmen...

So I met this girl a couple weeks ago, and we could only talk for five minutes before she had to leave, but I got her number and asked her if she wanted to go to dinner the upcoming wednesday - she agreed. We went to dinner last week, and we really hit it off - we stayed in the dining hall and...

You're right. I've been dependent on my mother for many things throughout my life, to the point where she has plenty of ammo to use against me when I try to stand up to her. So far I've done ok by myself in college, but I need to take fuller control of my life. I am tired of being pushed...

A few things: 1. That's nice, but me continuing to drink or not is no longer the issue here. Even if I gave it up completely, I still don't have my mother's trust, and there'd be no way to prove to her that I'd been clean. The situation would not change. 2. Facebook was used as an easy...

I can theoretically just make a new one, but then I'd have to friend everyone again and people would just be confused. That might be what I have to do though. This is something I've considered. I could feasibly move out of my house and find someplace cheap and work two jobs to make it work...

Growing up, my family raised me to be extremely anti-alcohol. My dad has never drank in his life, and my mom hasn't since her college years. This attitude has hurt me in some ways, as I used to look down on kids who drank. I was fine all through high school, as my friends didn't drink. But...

Wow, this has turned out much differently than I expected. So since we fell asleep in the same bed that night, everyone else who was there saw us together. Well, my friend started telling everyone, including my younger brother. This is significant because the girl is the same age as my...

Before yesterday, I had never kissed a girl in my life (unless you count spin the bottle many years ago) and I've never had a girlfriend (unless you count 11-year-old relationships). I've always been a big ***** when it comes to making a move, whether it's asking a girl out or going in for the...

She has a boyfriend, so there isn't going to be any "dates" between the two of us. This is also why I doubt I "crushed" her. My perspective right now is that I'm just going to try and have fun, because we're all leaving for college in two months anyway. And I wasn't sure before this game if I...

Ok so we went to the game and it was a great time. The three of us spent thirteen straight hours together and it was fun the whole time. I found more of her behavior to be weird, however. The whole day she was telling me really personal stuff, and much of it I'd rather not have known (I did...

Why do girls always neg themselves? They'll usually either act dumb or present themselves in a negative light in order to try and be cool or funny, but they often just come off as ditzy, annoying, or weird. For example, about a month ago I friended a girl on facebook who I hadn't talked to...

It's not that simple. My parents are strict and I more or less live under their rules until I am able to live on my own. Hell, they force me to get a haircut every three weeks, so right now I can't even decide for myself if I want to grow my hair out. I've spent lots of time trying to push...