Recent content by sense

I've been around long enough to know all this - I've had more than my fair share of women, and still find myself falling into the same trap. I broke up from a LTR a couple of years ago, and it's like I've gone back to my teenage self, trying to learn everything I already knew all over again...

Yeah, and I'm scratching my head as a middle aged guy and wondering how the **** I managed to create this ****. :/

It won't be; it'll be a mixed bunch of people, but I get what you're saying and will be better to stay away -- if I go I'll be expected to get a birthday card etc. and I just don't want to play that game. The "dyke" is a friend who I've known for many years and she isn't my only friend; I also...

Short version -- got close to girl, girl says "no", I back away from girl as I refused be friendzoned. Took a couple of months, but hey ho. However, my best female friend (a gay woman who I've known for years and have no interest in) is also friends with this girl (it's how we got close), and...

Guilty as charged -- although there is a recurring theme of never being attracted to women who like me, and vice versa. This needs to change.

:D I know right! I'm here because I've seen the other side and allowed myself to lose it again -- I've had sex with 200+ women and 4 long term relationships where I had all the power, and yet here I am having given it away and needing to learn it all again! :rolleyes:

Thanks for the reply. Well I managed to swerve the temptation to blurt out any pathetic "I'm in love with you" nonsense ... but I did tell her that I was "beginning to have feelings". So not completely pathetic, but still not as skillful as I could. Took a lot of nerve to say anything though...

Hi all. So, when I was a teenager all my mates were getting laid but I was always getting friendzoned. There was no pickup back then, no game, no Internet -- but somehow I managed to work out what was going on and transformed myself into a bit of a challenge. I realised that I had to become...