Recent content by scordate

sorry about this, but I know that I read the rating rules ( how you define a HB 8 etc ) sometimes on this forum but now I cant find them and the €%&%€ search option keeps saying that I must use longer or more words ! where is it ? scordate

gixxer said it; nuff said dont beg - dont discuss - dont try to persuade leave it

older women are more mature ( duh ! ) they most likely know more in bed aand about what they want but as LTR when you are 28 and she is 42 ? Houston - we have a problem ! women from 40 - 50 tend to blossom one last time, before they reach menopause so the good looks she has now at...

magico i know exactly what you mean however from various mails / experience I have gotten the general impression, that girls higher on the scales, while being babes in the beauty department, lack other qualities they might be self-centred, narsicistic, materialistic, expensive to...

oblivious; you are female if I remember correctly from other threads ? so your insight is much appreciated ( at least by me ) from what you write I gather that you are more 'comfortable' with her reaction / show of emotion in fact you are not surprised at all and it doesnt bother...

what are the considerations regarding having ANY girlfriend compared to no girlfriend is it ok to have a 3-5 when you are normally attracted to at least a 7 / scordate

she is crying / clinging after 1 month ? run run run bad bad sign not the crying in itself, but the context; you leaving / leaving her alone / scordate

typical woman ! dont 'know' what they want - dont want to take the responsability for what they get only option you have is to explore her borders, smoothly, carefully, slowly fx. dont mention kissing her caress her face, cheeks, neck, closing in for a kiss if she withdraws, stay...

right on ! there is a big lost generation that have been indoctrinated with feminism and therefore have been over-developping their 'feely' side and have been told that men and women are equals so therefore no need for a man to take charge / responsabilities, cause it is all about...

i think that the operative word here is take charge u da man u take charge i think you are doing it all very very well have everything planned with back-ups, so that you dont stand there discussing where to eat etc whether to telling advance or surprise her I know that you...

hi toast we all have our ups and downs its just natural what your job is to make sure that a down is just that, a down; which is followed by an up, right ? try to look back and see if you can spot the ups and downs in your past then you know that its just a down, nothing serious...

jealousy is about 'owner-rights' and 'insecurity' in a relationship jealousy is about 'hurt' after a relationship jealousy is about 'want and lust' before a relationship no matter what, its all about yourself and your self-esteem, a doze of oneitis and the 'must have what I havent' -...

we all have different standards, huh ? but in my book, no - she is not a slut HOWEVER and I really think you should get past this; we ALL have a past, right ? i heard a wonderfull complaint one day; a guy complained that his girlfriend was giving him such an incredible BJ that...

some important info is missing as pointed out above; how soon did you make the first call ? what did you say in your messages ? how long between the 3 calls ? and finally; can you be sure that she got the messages ? ( yeah right - in theory but machines can fvck up and roommates...

just to give a follow up on general online dating stuff; i've experienced that some women need to hear from you by mail in the time between you set a IRL date and the date itself if you dont contact them they will think that you are not serious had a girl cancel a date 3 hours before...