Recent content by Satin

Lol...of course not. I mean being able to read between the lines with regard to things such as what was the reason for the breakup, do they still talk regularly, as well as probably the most important thing...HOW does she sound when she talks about it. Angry, sad, happy, indifferent, etc.

What's everyone's take on asking about ex-boyfriends, especially recent ones? I've never really been one to ask details about ex's (or really care all that much), but have been burned a couple of times when I realized the girls weren't over their ex after already starting to date them. In one...

She sounds like a great girl, but need to point out that this is a red flag. Women learn many behaviors from their mothers at a young age. I'm not saying she's definitely going to cheat, but I'd acknowledge that this is a bad thing about her history, not a good thing. I know this from...

Honestly, the best thing you could do is stay in control of yourself when you talk to her. Tell her why you don't want to see her any more and be firm and decisive, yet also calm and "matter of fact." I know you'd probably love to go apesh!t on her, find out the "why?", etc., but you'll...

I think you're overanalyzing things. It sounds like the date went great -- plus you got to spend the night with a cool girl who you connected with and even got to f-close with her. Like you said, even if it doesn't go any further, sounds like it was a good experience for you. A couple of...

Lol...thanks credos. It had me a little interested in the "game" aspect of it, as I seem to see these crazy types out there all the time, but you make a great point and I agree that it's not worth it.

Thanks for responses and support, guys. <b>Never pre-emptively explain yourself to a woman</b> Jitterbug -- I have been guilty of that in the past and agree that it has never gotten me anywhere. Sometimes I text/talk before I think. An update... I haven't tried contacting crazy girl...

When dating girls much younger than you (e.g. I'm 38 and have gone out with some girls in the 23-26 range lately), how do you usually handle the age difference? -- Try not to mention it and make it an issue -- Talk about it freely like it's no big deal -- Turn it around on her and tease her...

I don't think you did anything wrong. From the way I'm reading it, your last text didn't ask for a response, so she may just be thinking Friday night is already set up. The lack of chatter for the next couple of days may also help cause some anticipation on her part about the date, which is...

No poopie where you eatie.

I'm not one to make moves like this very often, but it feels good that I did. I would have been stewing over the incident today had I waited there and tried to ignore her behavior any further. In retrospect, I probably shouldn't have sent the text, but it was a little lapse in the "logical...

So last night I was out with this HB8.5. She's a complete partygirl type 27 yr old single mom who basically goes out clubbing all the time and is batsh1t crazy, genuinely believing in all kinds of weird astrology, auras, "protective forcefields", superstitions about numbers, etc. It was the...

I wasn't giving her any pressure in any direction, and we never even talked about things like relationships...just had fun going out together. My normal self is definitely a guy who treats girls well, but I didn't get any vibe that she was just looking for a booty call (which would have been...

I've been on dating/meeting women overload lately between bars, online, and even random places (Target, the airport, etc) and I've just gotten used to flaking being a part of the game for most girls. I just had a girl who I only went out with a couple of times make a big deal to tell me...

Agree. I didn't realize it was a work function. Bring a cool girl that you already know who won't embarrass you and that you'll have a good time with.