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Just curious what needs to be done to close my account. Thank you!

Thread revival but I had to share this and didn't think starting a new thread would be justifiable. So new girl at work, gorgeous, 8 maybe 9..... but married. So I figure I'd go hard, not like I have anything to lose or gain. So we (10+ ppl) are at an after work party, and she ends up sitting...

About 18 posts back the guy said he was gonna grow a pair and be honest. He's not cowering to her. He's standing up for what he wants. This thread is gettin on level Dr Phil would cream himself over ffs. @Espi: Open Minded sure, but why did they vow before God to be faithful if they had no...

wow no.. I take my vows before God top shelf serious. I'm freshly divorced and super noon.

Haha, i love it. I'm slowly catching on. And now in hindsight I can see exactly what I should have done: Her: (across the street) awe! cute dog! Me: *nod suavely* (hit the cross walk and double back) Me: I wanted to keep going but my dog insisted we come back and thank you for the...

I can hold a convo with anyone. Relating to ppl is retarded easy.. So just tell me straight.. did i miss the mark? Example: I'm walking my dog.. I hear a comment like "so cute!" about my dog.. turn and look, its a cute chick in a bikini (i live by the water) but she's on the other side of the...

Don't get me wrong, I'm all behind plate spinning in the early days... and I expect her to have her own set of plates spinning as well. But "getting serious" would mean to me to cut the games and both start dropping plates. I quit lying when I was 6, maybe its because i'm retarded but its 1000x...

I totally get that concept. What I'm getting at is week 3 of starting conversations with strangers.. .i'd bee line to a hot chick, but to spark a convo with some guy thats across the street? Just seems creepy and pointless as heck.

I have to disagree. I might go against some of the schools of thought but I've been on the opposite end of this, and it f*ing sucks. I wouldn't wish that pain on my worst enemy. I'm still learning a lot about being a DJ, but common sense tells me if you have a problem with the MRS; communicate...

Correct me if I'm wrong, but recently reading through boot camp this dawned on me. The art of the cold approach is nothing more than making happen the "Hit it off" portion of the old saying: "We met doing (insert action) and just sorta, hit it off". It's just a matter of having the balls to...

Roger that..once in the next pile it's 100% on them to claw their way out.. my time is too valuable to be bothered with resurrections ;) Thanks gents! onward ho! (pun intended)

Long story short. I'm recently divorced and lost on this whole human interaction thing. A girl at work puts herself front and center of my attention, compliments me, seeks me out in a crowd, and goes out of her way to do me little favors here and there. I figure easy kill. Ask her to meet...

My point exactly...I had to learn it the hard way.. the way you described and unfortunately 99% of us will have to as well. At least it seems to be reciprocated in those drawings.

Not sure if you're looking for an answer, but I'll just leave this here. I have learned a lot in the last 10 years. And one of those things was the true definition of love. Love anymore by society's terms is "Lust". True love as our souls yearn for is a reciprocated investment in the...

Huge principle from most religions including Christianity right here. Forgiveness. But don't get hung up by the religious aspect. It's a very basic part of reality. We're going to make mistakes, guaranteed. but does it mean the end of a relationship with a girl? Oh hell no. You need...