Recent content by OneofOne

Leave the ex alone man. Let her get on with her life and you yours. I saw my ex the other day and she looks a lot hotter than when we broke up, but I am on a forward path. No u-turns.

Sorry, but you're wrong. 1. It isn't hard to give a woman an orgasm, but that's beyond the scope of this thread. 2. Women think about sex just as much as men do. 3. "Being yourself" is what brought most of the guys on this forum here to seek better advice. If you don't give off a sexual...

Don't get mad about it. Embrace it. Just wish her well and be on your merry way. You saved yourself a mountain of headaches. Don't try to explain yourself or argue your way back into her good graces, just let her go, and go find other women. She may even try to apologize or reconnect in...

Oh man...

I know it sounds dumb. Even to me it does but I can't shake the feeling. It's kind of like when a recording artist takes a long break after a hit album. They look back and think "how the f*** did I do that?!?" I have to start over and build my game again. LTRs kill your game.

Yeah I had to take a break. It's been about 4 months now and I'm starting to look around and notice hotties again.

How do you get past the looming feeling that you won't be able to attract another girl as good as or better than your ex?

I am never satisfied with a 6-7. I will always think I can do better. Funny thing is after I break it off if I don't already have something better lined up I go through a phase of doubting if I actually can get better.

Revenge is never worth it. It's fleeting and really a huge waste of time you could be using to get other girls.

Some background for perspective's sake: I used to be a very serious-minded, nose to the grindstone, by-the-book kind of guy. This was how I was raised. The old "Work hard, don't **** around" mentality. Now I'm much more care-free, spontaneous, & fun-loving. This is how I feel comfortable...

I met this girl about a month ago. Didn't see her for 3 weeks after that, or have any other direct contact with her for that matter. In the time I was away, she kept asking friends of mine about me; where I was, when I would be back, **** like that. I came back to NY last weekend, Halloween...

Yep.

Forgot to update. I talked to her again and asked her out, she got very shy all of a sudden, then she shut me down, saying "I'm going back to Ukraine next week, so it's not good to start something here." Oh well.

Understood. Will go ahead and just go for it. I think I need to get rid of a lot of the conditioning I got growing up. For some reason I was concerned about how her being punished or still having a job, when in fact that's for her to be concerned about, not me.

There's a girl I've been flirting with who works at the coffee shop I frequent in the mornings. She's new there and her boss is always hovering around nearby. She told me she thinks he wants her, and the last couple of days whenever I show up he makes a beeline to her station and just stands...