Recent content by NickAdams713

he's not alpha because he just followed your lead. the idea didn't originate from his mind.

I understand that. But if he says he likes the girl and then refuses to buy her a drink after your suggestion, it puts him in an awkward spot. Do you agree?

Roosh details a really awesome method of eliminating a ****blocker in the situation you describe, and it's pretty fool proof. He asks the ****blocker "do you like her?" If he says "no", he just put himself in a weird position. You then say "oh, I thought you were really into her because you...

Was just listening to Spotify, and a song I haven't heard in years came on, named "Cowgirl in the Sand". It has red pill lyrics. "Old enough now to change your name When so many love you is it the same? It's the woman in you That makes you want to play this game" The woman is old enough to...

You mean amazing post and thread by NickAdams713? This is my post, after all.

Who Dares Win, I think you need to approach this stuff with a sense of detachment, outcome independence, and frame control. If you care what people think, you're not going to reach your full potential as a player because you're not going to be able to utilize those concepts. When you mack on...

When I got back into running, I couldn't do a mile without being winded. Fortunately, I didn't give up at the first sign of resistance. Instead, I worked hard and got better at it.

Yeah, good point. Better off to not even bother trying. Better to spend hours analyzing text messages and waiting to hang out in a group setting. All kidding aside, remember, the easy way is the hard way. The hard way is the easy way. Sorry to have to get all Zen on you.

I've never once had a woman reject me mean spiritedly like that. I guess you figure guys should just not ask girls out due to their fear of rejection?

Definitely not saying that we should be happy about being rejected. But it's not the end of the word.

I've been reading a lot of these posts, and it seems like a common theme is dudes and wanna be players are missing out on opportunities because they're afraid of hearing the word "no" from a girl. I made this comment to a recent post, but I thought it deserved its own thread, so here it is...

You can only help someone who wants to be helped. There are so many guys on here with these long stories and problems that have very simple solutions (like, don't just stand here, bust a move), but when given the advice, they balk. "Oh I need to see her in a group setting." Or it's, "oh, I...

Glassyguy, exactly. This dude has no game. We tell him to use some game. He gets mad and tells us he wants the easy way out. "Go out in a group" AKA social circle game (which is weak game). Don't come here asking for advice when all you want is affirmation.

For the life of me, I have no idea why you guys make this stuff so much harder than it is. Is it really that big of a deal to say to a a girl/woman "I'd like to get to know you better. Let's grab a drink/snack/coffee one day this week?" It's like making a bet in poker to find out where you...

Glassguy: Your example of abundance is a little over-the-top and seems a bit try-hard (try-hard to seem important and busy). Your desperation example was spot on. Better example of abundance: "Let's grab a snack when it works for both of us--my treat."