Recent content by mxylplk

i know what you mean, and I know how you feel, and it sucks so bad. If anything good came from this is that the next time an opportunity arises, you seize that moment. Live today and die tomorrow.

I've been away from the forums myself cause I was focusing on school. Thanks for sharing your wisdom, much appreciated!

joekerr31, thanks for the insight. That was very inspiring and profound as is most of the posts that I've read from you on the forums. You're like a Zen Master! I hope most of us guys take that message to heart.

good luck in your quest Luke, and may the Force be with you!

Two years ago, I met a girl who I thought had everything worthy of my time only to find out that she was seeing someone exclusively. Props for honoring her current relationship and for moving on. Nice effort on trying to get to know her inspite of her ways. The dame was looking for attention...

Yes, simply saying "hi" or any of the variation is always a good opener since it doesn't convey desparation or a pick up line. I know your nerves may be playing against you when you take the opportunity. Use that chance as a means to simply get use to the feeling of communicating with girls...

Update well, she emailed me Sunday night, the night I read her initial flake message. I didn't open it 6 days later til this morning. And just yesterday, I was getting her calls but didn't answer. Wanted to make her sweat for a while. She apparently wants to make up for what she did. I know...

it's the regret over what if's. But you cannot take back the past. You did what you thought was best for YOU at the time. You have to pursue your passion now. Be involved helping the poor or abused animals. What has always helped me was getting out there instead of sitting and ruminating and...

don't worry too much why you feel that "you only like her." Have fun with this courtship. As for her being upset that she always makes the plans, simply surprise her with one of your own. It doesn't have to be costly. Go for a bike ride together, go to the beach, get some lunch from a take out...

I feel for you Fender since it happened to me too, I'm sure to most of us. The last thing you want to do is over-react to her. Chapstick and Comic Relief provided pretty good suggestions on how to deal with it. Don't place too high a value on your life based on who is attached to you...

ConantheLibertarian & Karma Sutra have a point. I probably should have called that way she wouldn't have instantly gave it a second thought talking over the phone as oppose to responding back by writing her lame-arse excuse. But who knows and who cares now, what's done is done. All newbies...

Having a sense of humor is helpful since it makes the woman smile. During approaches, don't worry so much about the end result, will she like me or not. Each guy is unique when it comes to being "cheeky." Some guys can pull it off because they've had experience or maybe they don't think about...

Do you talk about yourself? Get her to talk about HER interests. Pick up on small details which you can use to keep the conversation going. For instance, if she says she loves going to a certain club because she enjoys the music, ask her what kind of music do they play and other stuff like that...

I appreciate the advise fellas, thanks. I spent the day (she and I were suppose to hang out) with other friends and tried to put her behind me. And I will try to put off talking to her for a while if at all. I probably blundered somewhere during our previous coffee dates where she may have...

Last Thursday after finals week, I reunited with this girl I like whom I haven't seen since last Fall. We're both busy with work and school so it makes it hard to have time off just to hang out, or have coffee across campus. She was delighted to see me again, and I told her we should hang out...