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    Just not that attracted to her any more

    I know I'm hardly the epitome of a DJ but I see a big dissonance here from a logical standpoint mate. Your relationship shouldn't be "running it's course" if you're getting all the things you want out of it. I think in a way the amount of success you're having with women is a negative thing, as...
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    Talked politics with a girl...

    Jeez, yeah, Brexit was one thing she tears into me on as well. We had a really good discussion about it in person (I was Leave, she was Remain). I voted Leave because I dislike the EU as a political institution and I believe it will be bad for democracy in the future. Whereas she immediately...
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    Talked politics with a girl...

    ....and it wasn't clever. Quelle f***ing surprise I guess. Bit of a rant here tbh guys, I just can't really believe how this has escalated. Was talking to a chick I've known a while, she sent me some interesting political documentaries. Watched them and enjoyed them, she is very Left wing but...
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    What should I do here, if anything?

    Verbally yes, physically I kind of suck in all honesty. But yes, this is true. Well, I've not just been sitting around like a b*tch crying over her for 6 years dude. I've been seeing other girls. Just now this one's single again, it seems worth having a go again. If she's now single anyway...
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    What should I do here, if anything?

    Haha her friend isn't single and I know her BF, but I appreciate the advice anyway. I'm going to try to use the opportunity to flirt with my crush a bit more heavily and try to escalate things a bit, but I imagine I'm too late now. We will see.
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    What should I do here, if anything?

    Ugh. F*ckkkkk. Well, in perhaps better news, her friend wants to hang out for a drink with me and her in a group. I guess that's a good time to flirt a bit? I guess as you say I've kind of messed this up over time. I don't know why it bothers me so much, this situation. I shouldn't give a crap...
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    What should I do here, if anything?

    When we're drunk we flirt like f*cking crazy, but I haven't been able to actually get out to get drunk with her for ages so it sucks. Last time we went out properly she snogged me on the cheek (like a 5 second kiss) at the end of the night. And blew me a kiss afterwards too. But when we're...
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    What should I do here, if anything?

    So lads, there's this chick I've liked on and off for like 6 years but thanks to some terrible luck it never went anywhere. At one point I was pretty down about it because we were *this* close to dating and then her housemate beat me to it. Now she's split up with that dude and she seems to be...
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    What was this girl doing?

    Went on a bar date with this girl I've known a while. Started off with some light chat and she mentioned her job etc. etc. Anyway after a while she asked about any dates I'd been on, I said I went on a date last month with a girl who talked nothing but politics and ended up not seeing her again...
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    Girl on Tinder asked me my height

    This is one reason I can't stand online dating/Tinder anymore. My height's not an issue but I resent having to state it like I'm some sort of prize bull to be judged and sold at the fair. For some reason it's fine if women put "If you're under 6'3" then NO THANKS" or "hung guys only" or "INTO...
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    She’s got herpes (AJ’s I told you so thread)

    My first serious girlfriend ever, and if I have sex with her I'm looking at having to explain to every girl I ever date that I have a permanent sexually transmitted infection. Not exactly a good look, or a small burden for a first GF...
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    She’s got herpes (AJ’s I told you so thread)

    I'd get tested because if you're having sex with her unprotected you may already have it and not be symptomatic. Best you know either way. My ex had herpes and we broke up over it. It's not a big deal if you already have it, but a pain in the arse if you don't.
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    Flakey chicks

    I've noticed recently that every time I go out and post photos of my evening I get a few girls messaging me telling they can't wait to hang out with me. Then I go to arrange it and 99% of the time it never happens. Few weeks later I go out again and these same girls are messaging me again. WTF...
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    How do you deal with mortality?

    Okay so not a dating or DJ thread per se, but something every man has to face and I guess it's an interesting topic. I haven't been posting much because a few months ago I had a hospital trip with heart arrhythmia. I'm in my twenties so it's very unusual. Fortunately it turned out to be nothing...
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    Rant: The concept of a 'man-cave'.....

    I see it as fairly harmless if it's a place to rest and rid yourself of everyone else's BS. An example would be a quiet study with a decent PC or TV and your favourite DVDs/records or whatever. I think most men want a cave because they have to deal with so much crap in their life, haha. But...
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