Recent content by Mintyfresh

Hey f*ck that guy ^ It takes crazy balls to cold approach at all. You get the same adrenaline rush as jumping out of a plane or something. Keep posting these. I bet it inspires others to go out and talk to girls.

There's a saying that is similar in nearly all religions. We reach nirvana through way of samsara. You reach christ through suffering. Its more difficult for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than a rich man to find heaven. etc. etc. There's one in every religion. Anyway...

So, I got a job. It took two interviews, and they called EVERY single one of my references. It's a retail job, so I guess the economy really is pretty poor when they're taking these jobs so seriously. I remember getting hired at one store without even an interview a few years ago. Honestly I was...

I tried seeing a shrink a few years ago when I was SEVERELY depressed. I mostly wanted some meds to help me deal with social situations. The guy was very aggressive and put me into a defensive state whenever we talked. He even denied that anxiety issues in a social situation were a real problem...

EvilAgenda - what would you do with your time if you were broke, depressed, and had no social life? I also paint, longboard, play guitar, workout, meditate... I've applied to jobs, I've been on interviews. It takes a massive amount of effort just to not give up on life. Some days I just can't...

Okay maybe I'm not as hopeless as some, but I have it pretty bad right now. I really need some advice, and some encouragement here. I'm 26 and I just finished college. I moved back home to my parents house and its been really rough and depressing. I have no friends in the area. I have no...

Human beings are programmed with an invisible achievement board inside each of thier minds. This is a very primal thing and I'm sure it dates back to cavemen and exists in other animals. The goal of ones life is to fill these boards with personal achievements one can be proud of and draw...

Human beings are programmed with an invisible achievement board inside each of thier minds. This is a very primal thing and I'm sure it dates back to cavemen and exists in other animals. The goal of ones life is to fill these boards with personal achievements one can be proud of and draw...

Get in the gym : Well, I've been doing a fairly heavy pushup/pullup/situp routine 3x a week and some cardio (longboarding). As a starter, its the start of the third week and its nice that ive stuck to it. I have a naturally muscular build, just around 20 pounds of unwanted fat over it at the...

I'll try to make this as brief as possible. About 5 or 6 years ago i discovered the PUA community. I had never gone on a date, only kissed 2 girls ever, had no friends or social life. Long story short i made massive improvements to my social life and everything in general. My freshman year of...

so like yeah, in your opinions do the rules completely change when one enters a LTR? For the first time I'm in a relationship i actually want to be in and actually really care about the girl. Just want some input on simple things. Is it alright to compliment your girlfriend frequently if you...

Where do you live that prostitution is legal?

I've never been able to decide if luke is a real troll or not. His philosophy and situation just seem too sad to be true. Are some people really this hopeless? He's like a male version of the 1970's Carrie movie. Except, ya know Carrie went out on a date with a high status guy and he actually...

I assure you my social anxiety was/still is just as bad as yours. High school and my first year at college i never so much as opened my mouth even once. I had no friends because i was scared to speak to anybody. I still don't have many, but some is better than none. The only difference...

As somebody that's battled with social anxiety, I have to say i think its great that you're willing to do all this. However, you're progressing at an extremely slow pace. Which im sure isnt what you wanted. After my first day of walking around getting eye contact with people I realized...