Recent content by MattTheW

I'm 34, most people age me late 20's ->30 at a push with a beard/stubble As soon as i'm clean shaven age drops to early to mid 20's lol I seem to also get more attention with at least some stubble. I've received some feedback in the past that would suggest that I look better with some form of...

I took up ballroom But salsa is where you want to be going Yoga is ok - but difficult to build up anything due to the nature of the classes Unless the women hang around at the end of the class it's difficult to talk

Sometimes you just have to draw a line under something and accept you will never get closure. In most breakups this will always be the case. Now - As TMK has stated, it's NO CONTACT, not no initiating. By replying you are always hindering your progress Also, you think that by stating...

just have fun with it As long as she has fun it wont matter if you make a few mistakes

I dunno, i go away for a week and i come back to this!!!! The Branch swing guy is never "Just there" - she thought "why not" ha, so she felt soooo much for you then....... As soon as you read the 2 lines i highlighted you should have been confident that being NC was the right thing to...

It's just a small relapse, as long as you don't do something stupid it's all good remember, what you remember isn't the real her - it's the "perfect" her She will never live up to these memories..... Try not to dwell on it - keep busy

4 weeks - keep strong When you get to 4 months you'll look back at this and laugh at yourself :up: Why would you care about someone that doesn't give a sh1t about you?

You keep it vague If she is a "insert job here" at the same company as another "insert job here" that you are already dating then just say I've dated a "whatever the job is" in the past Don't mention that they were in the same company - just the same line of work :up:

Gotta be careful using mentioning an EX, I would mention a "friend" rather than an EX She may have known your ex, or that you were together, that sh1t can always filter back...... Those phrases work better when you don't reference a person that you dated who works for exactly the same company...

Spot on

Ok - think of getting laid like trying to bench 200 Can you do that now? - no So what do you do, you train, and you work your muscles so that eventually you'll reach your goal Do exactly the same with getting laid. "train" - hit up girls, lots of girls, work on your approaches etc -...

oof - kick to the nuts with the "I have a boyfriend" All you are is a borderline friendzoned guy who fills in for all the pitfalls in her current relationship Cut her loose and move on :up:

You posted this whilst I was writing my response You will absolutely NOT whatsapp her!!! You wont make any contact whatsoever Lol - are you serious? Over analysing, you've jumped in with both feet!! You need to walk away from this, and look back with an outsiders perspective If you are...

Ok, why did you even bother looking at her facebook? What were you hoping to gain from it? That you'd find some post about how much she misses you or "I'm miserable now that part of my heart is mssing" blah blah blah...... Did you get what you wanted from looking at her page? Are you now in...

Your opener was a little weak And I agree with Mr Wright, your posting on here does mean you coming across as needy - but it's just to us, so that's better than coming across needy to her You are investing too quickly in what was in reality a very small interaction Cool it - go and...