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mmm why don't you contribute and make good threads. this one is also lame

Haha this is spot on!

waltfranks - you yourself said you were needy and clingy. now on the very first day of NC you already break it!! This is what got you here in the first place. You have a golden opportunity here to man up and show her you are not this weak guy. GIVE HER SPACE!

@european dj Its been a while since you posted on this thread. It's good to hear that you are moving on. Has she tried to get in touch with you over this last 80 days? It sucks that she lives so close by though. I don't think I would have been able to deal with that as you are. Hang in...

^^^ this is great advice!!

yesterday I had a hangover accompanied by a low day thinking of her ALOT. I didn't go train... I didn't speak to friends. Just went home after work and watched some series. I told myself that I have been doing great. so TAKE this day and be down and do nothing. But tomorrow you jump out of...

jariel, say this to yourself over and over again: Attachment leads to suffering, detachment leads to freedom! Our stories are so similar. I broke no-contact and it ended bad each time. I actually bought her a plane ticket so that we can spend xmas together. She was all up for it and...

There are two forms of No-Contact that I have learned these last few months. And I did them both. NC form 1: Goal is to get a reaction/emotion out of your ex. This isnt't really No-Contact, this is the Silent Treatment and isnt't good. NC form 2: to get the partner out of your...

Never underestimate the power of denial. I relapsed many times Jariel. But at some point your heart catches up with your mind. :up: Just focus on yourself. Try and stop thinking about her. The person you fell in love with does not exist. The person you see now is who she really is.

UPDATE: the original chick never arrived at the party but I followed your advice and flirted with all the girls. I got invited by one girl to a party saturday night. I had a blast there and then got the digits of a hot blonde. so I would say all in all a very successful weekend for this...

thanks for the advice. I got a new hair cut today and I am on my way to the party. I will report back on how things went down.

First of all, back in May I went through a break-up. I am now finally over it and ready to move on. I am what you would call a beta. A people pleaser. I am reading the DJ bible and other sites so that I can work on my game. I am loving it and already seeing some improvements in my life...

@Dgwizdal awesome post bro. I read it a couple of times so I wouldn't miss anything. really valuable advice in there. I am somewhat of a beta and I am here to improve myself and this is just the kind of stuff I want to read.

Happy Birthday! I would treat it as any other distant friend family member sending me a text. funny I received a parcel today from my ex. it was multiple birthday gifts with a very heartfelt card inside. she recently asked me that we should get back together again. she apologized for...

OP should change the name of this thread to Girlfriend of 5 years cheated (100% sure) she looks like she is going to dump the OP sooner or later so get out now.