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    Give me strength my brothers

    Not as tough as you thought you were? Get your foot off the gas, seems like you've got a date every day with someone else, and then when one of those girls you're spinning checks you, you begin losing sh*t? How fair is your game from their perspective? Take a deep breath, what do you really...
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    Help me getting my frame back with this girl, please!

    My advice for you, OP, is - try not to act out all the DJ rules (read the Bible yet?) but rather ask yourself how to become a man to whom those rules come naturally. Think of it this way, you're trying to walk by consciously moving individual muscles every time you make a step, you can't do that...
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    Things my gf said....

    She doesn't find you sexually desirable and that made you crave for her. Which makes you even less desirable. Things she said mean only one thing: stick with her and there can only be sorrow. Let her go.
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    She's hot and cold

    When are hungry, you waste no food. When you are full, you won't take a bite of even the most excellent dish. ScubaSteve99: you need to resolve your own insecurities first. The foundation on which you stand is shaky, find what you are and what you want, find self respect and then go with the...
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    Met her in a weird way...

    What's wrong with just calling her, asking her out? And not for something specific, just, let's meet, this time, this place.
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    Girlfriend treats me like a "friend" around MY friends

    This vibe is a reflection of the attitude within you that she sensed and therefore lost a bit of interest. You did not react like a man, you reacted like a child, pouting. If you see her pulling crap on you you don't like, don't react verbally, let her know how you feel by making a move that...
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    She said she's on her period

    Really? If she wants you she will do anything no matter if it makes her feel gross? I strongly disagree with this one. It's a personal preference, some don't care some don't like it.
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    was my ex ever even attracted to me in the first place?

    Now I see it. You took her back and you were too happy to be banging her. She recognized this neediness (also in other areas, not just sex) and lost interest. You should have made it perfectly clear, that she has to prove herself worthy, you don't need her at all, you'll go on with her or...
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    When It Works Out Too Well

    I love that however irrelevant, we have a visual :) What I would do would depend on my emotional attachment and goals with her. Family or banging? Do I plan on having a family... with her? With someone else but I still want to enjoy her until I meet someone more suitable? What do you want, what...
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    she's dancing with someone else!

    Delete the desire, become aloof, but stay friendly, in other words, become disinterested. If that should spike her interest, you may consider thawing gradually, observe what she will be doing and don't mind the words - she needs to build trust and win you over. If she's really what you think you...
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    she's dancing with someone else!

    Ditto. She put you in a low shelf while she's picking something from the top. This is disrespectful, but that's not the point, the point is, she's not interested. Disappear. Not with the intention of winning her interest, walk away and you will raise your dignity a notch, beg and you will drive...
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    I pissed in a fat chick's mouth!!

    Congratulations on your pick up skills, sweet revenge and last but not least, massive ****. We are in awe.
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    4 dates no sex....how to handle?

    Could be she's a virgin, on her period for the past week, wants to keep it slow because maybe you've come off as too speedy, or she has a deep rooted psychological problem from the past. Find out what it is, she won't cut you off for asking.
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    Money/Security

    What country?
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    I don't think maintaining attraction beyond 6 months is possible

    Accept that relationships, like everything else, are subject to change, it grows and grows old. It is impossible to keep the feeling of the first date, or first sex for years, it changes and if it changes right it becomes not more of a routine, or more boring, but rather it becomes, more...
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