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    POF hb9 wont give up phone number

    I doubt there any 9's on there. I dont think she want to go out with you. She never brought up the idea of a date. She isn't giving you her number. What's the purpose of the site? Online Dating
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    Having platonic female friends. Do it!

    Let's cut through all the crap here shall we? The only reason that you're friends with these women is that you eventually want to have sex with them, or you want them to obtain other women for you to have sex with. You want them for their goods and services as long as they provide the services...
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    My counselor has proposed a meeting between me and my ex-wife.

    This is the root of the problem right here, if your wife has BPD. She couldn't wait to stick the knife deeper inside when she had her chance. This is what BPD women do very well, they can't wait to hurt you at every opportunity they can get. She wanted you to know she has moved on so you can...
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    The Stop Text-Initiating Experiment

    I disagree with this part above. If you keep letting a woman's problematic behavior just go, then you are going to have problems in your relationship further down the road. Her bad behavior will get worse, and she will eventually lose respect for you as a man.
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    Live-in GF watches too much television

    Good for you, you took some action for the problem you had. You weren't making excuses for her problematic behavior. You did something about it. Just like I have been talking about. As with anything you do in life, you make a decision first, then you follow through with the process. The...
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    Live-in GF watches too much television

    Well, you should make yourself more clear when you are writing these threads. Since you originally let her watch her two shows, let her watch those for now. Having her watch anymore of them, will interfere with your writing time, and it won't cure her problem. You need to ween her away from the...
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    Live-in GF watches too much television

    Ok OP, nobody has given you any solid advice, except for empty solutions. So this is what you need to do. You had her move in to consolidate your expenses and to see if you were able to move to the next step of your relationship. You can see how that is working out, not very good, because you...
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    Live-in GF watches too much television

    What some guys will go through just to say they have a girlfriend. To answer your user id question, the answer is yes. This is you own fault. You should never invite/allow a woman to live or move in with you. Seems like she is more interested in your Big Screen TV than you. This woman is an...
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    Girlfriend Problem

    What some guys will go through just to keep a girlfriend "The Thrill Is Gone" just like B.B. King said, and you are "Flirtin' With Disaster" with this chick. Well, I'm sorry my friend, but your relationship is reaching it's end. The only thing you can do now is regain some dignity by dumping...
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    Have you ever changed a girl's mind about liking you?

    What some guys will go through just to get a woman What more does this woman have to do to make you realize that she isn't interested in you? Beat you over the head with a club? I mean she told you in the nicest way possible, twice, without really hurting your feelings that the two of you...
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    You should always have women available to you, even in a relationship

    The main problem that I see with most of the men on here, is that they have no women available to them. They complain about their girlfriends wanting to hang out with other men, girlfriends losing attraction for them, asking how they can get an ex back, or trying to woo a girl who is already in...
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    Gf wants me to meet guy friend

    Boy, some of you guys are sure naive about women. I'm surprised to read some of these comments in a DJ forum. They are not very DJ like at all. Some of you guys need to rethink your ink. Most of you missed the entire point of what was even going on here. This thread is a little old but it's...
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    how to "push" her into breaking up with her boyfriend?

    What some guys will go through just to get a girlfriend. Unless you are getting some poon from this girl, then there is no need for you to be hanging around her letting her pull your string. If you are getting some, then there is no need to be in a relationship with her. You are...
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    kidding around and got the real answer

    Well, you should make yourself more clear when you are writing these threads. You said that you dated a woman who had financial problems. How was I supposed to know that you didn't find that out until later? You didn't state that. Yes, she did dictate the relationship because you were paying...
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    found texts

    Quite frankly, I'm surprised at some of the comments on this thread in a DJ forum. They are not very DJ like at all. Some of these guys need to rethink their ink. When a woman disrespects you this much, as this woman did to this man, you don't relegate her to a fvck buddy status (because...
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