POF hb9 wont give up phone number

papawapa

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I travel for work and use online to find easy action on the road. I have a pretty solid system down. Of the women that respond to my spam I get about 75% of the ones i would like to bang to give up their number, usually very quickly.

I would really like to bang this hb9. Started chatting her up about a week before I got here to her city. I sparked emotion, built rapport, made connection. And she still won't give up her number. I know if I can get her on the phone I will get her to meet and then be able to seduce her.

The only mistake I think I have made is being a little too eager/try hard.

Im gonna give it a rest, go silent from today until monday.
Anyone have any knowledge on how to get her to give uo her number?
 

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im guessing the standard response is "the princess is in another castle"
 

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When I date girls from online, I NEVER get their number online. It's safe for her to talk to you behind a keyboard, but the reality is until she meets you in person, she may not feel comfortable giving up the digits, especially if you end up being someone she doesn't want calling/texting her all the time.

Just ask for the date. Say "Hey so and so, let's continue this convo in person and meet up at a coffee shop." Set up the location and time with her on the dating site, then show up at the agreed upon time. Let her get to that first meeting with you and feel you out, THEN ask her for the number. If after the first meeting she's comfortable with you she'll give you the number; if not, she won't. Really simple stuff, man.
 

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I doubt there any 9's on there. I dont think she want to go out with you. She never brought up the idea of a date. She isn't giving you her number. What's the purpose of the site? Online Dating
 

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In my experience online girls can't really be convinced of anything

ie. Give me your number
and she says i cant give my number/ too soon or any other excuse, they wont and even if they did, is going to be and uphill battle getting them to do anything you want.

i dont have extensive experience
but all girls i have seen have made it extremely easy for me to see them

good luck
 

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Megaman XIV said:
She ain't interested.
I couldn't have said it better myself, but keep trying and see how she responds and if she still doesn't give you her number then just ask her to meet up and see what she says. If she declines to meet up then forget about her and go for the next chick on your list.
 

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I went silent on thursday. She left me a message last night after she got home from work. I havent responded. Thinking about messaging her and telling her I have a 'friend' in town and asking where this beach is she talked about going to.

Bad idea?
 

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papawapa said:
I went silent on thursday. She left me a message last night after she got home from work. I havent responded. Thinking about messaging her and telling her I have a 'friend' in town and asking where this beach is she talked about going to.

Bad idea?
There's a common school of thought in the PUA community that you're not suppose to set up dates for the weekend, the rationale being it implies that you having nothing else going on in your life. However, you have two options:

1) Find a bar or lounge that's popping. Once you're there, call the and TELL HER to meet you at "x" location. The conversation should go like this.


papawapa: Yo! What's up?

Chick: Nothing much? How about you?

papawapa: I'm cool. First of all I'd like to apologize for not returning your call. I was on a date.

Chick: Oh. (she will probably be taken aback and not know how to respond to this,)

papawapa:Fluff, then say. I'm at "x" location, meet me for a drink.


"She'll either say, "yes," or "no."

or you can meet her some time during the week.

Now you're probably wondering why I'm suggesting that you tell her that you were on a date, for the following reasons:

1) It shows that you have many options. I can tell you from experience that women just act better, try harder, give you more cooperation, and are all around better people when they feel as if they're competing for your affections.

It also gives you social proof. By you being out with another woman, it shows you have the ability to get chicks and you're an alright dude. Just as people don't want to dine in an empty restaurant, women don't want to be men that deemed to be socially inept that can't get woman.

If she agrees to meet (either this weekend or next week,) try your best to be talking to another woman, (preferably hot) when she arrives for the reasons that I just stated.

One one thing, don't put so much on having a woman's phone number. Numbers are meaningless and are literally just binary characters on your phone. It's best to get a chick's number after you've gotten her to agree to an "instadate," and you've built more comfort at the instadate location. This will solidify the number and greatly increase the chances to her responding to your messages when you contact her. Good luck.
 

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Problem 1- using POF. It's like fishing in a septic tank. And the terds think they are God's gift to men. Do yourself a favor and get a match and okcupid account.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
There's a common school of thought in the PUA community that you're not suppose to set up dates for the weekend, the rationale being it implies that you having nothing else going on in your life.


I am allergic to the use of terminology in order to make something sound fancier and more true, but especially when the terminology leads to hyper inflation. One idea for how to do one thing is not a "school of thought". And how often don't we see people imagining themselves being part of a "community" on the internet, when what they actually do is sit alone in front of a computer and post in a forum. That ... is not a community.
 

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D Wolfgang said:
I am allergic to the use of terminology in order to make something sound fancier and more true, but especially when the terminology leads to hyper inflation. One idea for how to do one thing is not a "school of thought". And how often don't we see people imagining themselves being part of a "community" on the internet, when what they actually do is sit alone in front of a computer and post in a forum. That ... is not a community.
WTF are you talking about? I've heard the same thing from Tom Leykis, Tariq Nasheed, in addition to Mystery that you should avoid setting up dates for weekend because for the reason that I've already stated. With that being said, I it's fair to say when you have three independent sources parroting the same thing, that might actually constitute a school of thought.
 

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I got her to come out with me last night. Here's how I did it...

I ignored her for a couple days. Then sent her a message that a 'friend' had come to visit me so I had been busy, made it clear the friend was a female. The next message I got from her was in the middle of the night. She said she had a few and let it slip why she was apprehensive. I repliwd and gave her a nice charm laden dose of what she wanted to hear. Then yesterday I told her to come meet me. Made a joke out of her excuses, laid on some more charm and she came around, suggested a place and time and we met.

We ate and then went for a walk. Had her making out with me. At the end of the night she gave me her number. Next time I see her she will be giving up the poon :)
 
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