Recent content by Exoduso

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Someone give her a goddamn sandwich.

I think you're actually right about this, and I was taking it in the wrong way (in the way you mention with the dinner thing)... I just wanted to update and say that we didn't end up bowling that night, but she did come over here and watched a movie at my place. Didn't go all the way, but it...

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She cheated on her boyfriend for you. That's the most you're ever going to get from her if you want to be realistic. Like you said yourself, if she cheated on him she could just as well cheat on you. Since you say this has been going on for years, you have to let her go for your own sake...

Should've probably mentioned that this is like the 3rd time she's bailing a couple of hours before. And yeah, she may have legit reasoning. But idk. I guess I'll just play it cool and see what happens.

Well I did... she responded well and everything was okay, then about an hour after she texted to say that she had a fight with her parents and she's going out of town to stay with her sister, but wants to see me and wants to stop by on the way back tomorrow and blahblahblah. At this point I'm...

I asked her who she was thinking of inviting, just to see what happens. She wanted to bring along 2 of her girlfriends, and was thinking I could invite some of my friends too (even though she knows all my friends are couples, pretty much) I told her my friends can't make it but if she wants to...

Do I go along with it or stick to just us 2?

That's the problem, I dunno which one it is. You might be right, might just be my overthinking. The problem is that thinks HAVE been going well, but we only saw each other 3 times in the past 2 and a half weeks, so when I ask her out after not seeing her for almost a week and she brings up...

Not sure that'll make her see the stupidity of her question.

So I've been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks now... we went out three times, things are progressing nicely. I haven't seen her since Sunday, but I was busy with school this week and so we didn't talk a lot this week but kept in touch. We end up scheduling to go out tonight, for bowling...

Been there, done that. Stop it if you truly want to move on.

I think it's a welcomed change. You don't need to constantly be skirt chasing to be happy.

Pretty much. Like others here have said, if she wants to cheat on you she will... and you can't do anything about that. If you're in a relationship with her, you have to trust her until she gives you a valid reason to not trust her, or loses that trust by doing something stupid. Right now...