Recent content by dap

Agree with above.

You dont need to delete her, just hide her from your newsfeed. I did this when I went NC with my ex 5 months ago and haven't seen anything from her since (although I know she is very active on FB).

Agree. Are you still trying to limit how wordy your txts are? I'd pay close attention to this. She should have longer/more texts than you. Also, I wouldn't send jokes that are require inference (eg the age/bonds joke really can't be delivered well through text). Really I would stop all jokes...

You are this girls insurance policy while she looks for another guy to fúck her on the same night. Long distance relationships are a girl's safety net as she looks for someone better than you. I would go NC forever, or until she starts talking about having sex and coming to visit YOU. And wtf...

Well, spinning plates (women and hobbies etc) is how you show her that you will walk if she tries to give you any BS. Anything that she views as you trying to "knock her off her pedestal" is going to look reactionary (afc). Instead give her no attention at all, and if she comes crawling back you...

Update?

Any race thread on so suave is like a roll call for its most ignorant members.

Quit trying to micromanage this girls feelings and start flirting with/dating other women. If this girl is ever going to be attracted to you, it will start with her seeing you pull other chicks.

You definitely don't want to get into something emotional with someone you work closely with. FWB may be ok.

You are over thinking this. This is the way to your answer next time you two are out: "Let's go get drinks at my place." Then, escalate and bang her. If she rejects this, then you know. My gut is telling me that she wants it, she is not being an AW. Even if she turns you down, I'm sure she will...

I dunno. You could do this, but its kinda snarky/drama seeking. I'd just let her wonder in silence.

Please relax. She's not pregnant. Have her take a pregnancy test if you can't sleep at night. You had a condom on. If you search for horror stories on the internet about anything, you will find them.

Great job sage, you've made a lot of progress! You are doing a lot of stuff right, and I basically agree with the others that you should be less wordy in your txts and go for the gold next time she's over. Escalate, escalate, escalate. When you're in bed making out with her next time, squeeze...

Simple question- how many girls do you cold approach in say, a week? I never really did this much and am just starting to. Most of the girls I've talked to in the past have been acquaintances somehow. I did a direct cold approach at the grocery store today ("this is random, but you are cute so I...

This girl couldnt care less about you. Have some self respect and never talk to her again.