I work with a girl who has always had a boyfriend but recently split with the guy. Even when she was dating him she hinted at being interested in me. I never went for it because of her relationship and I was interested in someone else. For about a week now, this girl with has been throwing signals at me like it's her job. I'm still trying to get on my feet from a girl who completely used me. Should I just tell this girl to stop and keep it professional? Or should I see if she just wants to "play" around since I am not looking for something serious with her? Or is it just a not a good idea since we work together and things could go downhill real fast? What do you guys think?
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Depends on how closely your jobs are related.
Are you in the same team, same section, same floor?
If you're in a larger organisation and not in the same chain of command, then go for it. Because if you do kick things off and it goes pear-shaped then your boss is not having to arbitrate between two warring team members.
If it's a small team then I'd advise against it, unless you're both very upfront about it just being a bit of fun.
Are you in the same team, same section, same floor?
If you're in a larger organisation and not in the same chain of command, then go for it. Because if you do kick things off and it goes pear-shaped then your boss is not having to arbitrate between two warring team members.
If it's a small team then I'd advise against it, unless you're both very upfront about it just being a bit of fun.
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You definitely don't want to get into something emotional with someone you work closely with. FWB may be ok.
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I wouldn't put my career at risk. Avoid it and control your tendency.
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
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