Recent content by Cavalier

I've been casually dating different women for the past several months. I have noticed a common theme among all of them. Usually after the first time they come over and any sort of physical intimacy happens, they always like to ask me "what are you thinking?" Every single woman has asked me...

Well said. At the same time, I’m glad I didn’t. On our 4th date, she started to reveal some aspects about her life that revealed she was professionally unstable and also had some mental health issues. Again, I probably should have tried to tease things out sooner, but she also didn’t feel...

What do you do when they ask you why you are ending it?

Hey team. I need some advice (again). I am back to dating after a LTR that ended several months ago. It has been tough to get back into dating and to find my "mojo" again. I met a girl about 3-4 weeks ago and we have been out on 4 dates. Things were going really well. We had great conversations...

Hey team. I went on 3 dates with a girl. Definite chemistry and a lot of fun. Kissed her on the second date and she came over on the third. We did the deed and she was asking about sleeping over. I told her that I usually don’t do sleep overs this early. She got pretty angry and things got...

She was obese. Her pictures showed someone who was quite fit.

Hey team! I matched with a girl on a dating app. We immediately hit it off and had great chemistry over text. I met her for drinks last night and immediately realized that she looked nothing like her pictures (not as slim). I was respectful and we hung out for about 2 hours. I paid for...

Thank you all again. Okay. So how many women have you all casually dated at the same time? I can’t imagine it’s possible to see more than 2-3 people at once?

Nope. I’m definitely not religious. I like the idea of being straightforward. I don’t really care if women walk away.

I completely agree. None of these women strike me as wife material. They are just fun to hang out with so far. As I mentioned above, I'm not mentally ready to dive into anything serious after my recent experience.

You guys are incredible. How do you guys end things once the exclusivity talk comes up?

This is all very helpful. Is it acceptable to keep dating these women and escalate sexually with them until I figure out who I like better? Won't one of them feel deceived once I eventually call it off? Or are they off doing the same thing? (excuse my stupidity lol)

Disclaimer: I promise I am not a troll. I am genuinely asking for advice. Thank you in advance for reading. I am a man in my early 30s who is new to dating after a LTR. Unfortunately, I was due to be married and things fell apart. I have been single for about 6 months and just moved to a large...