Recent content by CatB

From the information you've given, she sounds like a girl who hasn't been on many dates, or really understands flirting and dating very well. There are (surprise surprise!) a lot of insecure women who are just as bad at dating as some men are. It's quite possible that she's one of them. Most...

Good advice from everybody. Women are interested in guys who have plans and goals, not guys who are trying to figure themselves out. It would be much more valuable for you to get your studies in order, get an idea of where you want to be after you get your nursing degree, and learn to enjoy...

If your goal is to simply get to know her better then a coffee date is fine. If your goal is to sleep with her the day of the date, then you should go to her place, or invite her to your place. Match your activity to your goals.

In a college guy's place, it would almost be more unusual for him not to have a video game system, I'd imagine. My only advice is try to have multiplayer games there. I love playing Mario Kart on the Wii or Rock Band, and have had some great nights with groups of friends playing them.

Try not to beat yourself up over all this. Women will often be very enthusiastic when talking to guys about setting up fluff dates like this, only to avoid being pinned down when it comes to the details. It's just easier that way than saying no, then watching his face fall, and then having...

Girls like that, they may get excited if you try to let's just be friend her and then keep talking to her, hanging out with her. Maybe. In reality, if she really is the way you suspect, she'll get distracted once you're out of the picture and forget about you.

Escalating with two girls at once? To what end? If a guy was hitting on me and another girl, I'd try to figure out what his motive was. If he was trying to bag us for a threeway, he would have to be an incredibly solid guy. I mean, rock solid cool guy, who obviously is enjoying himself and...

You guys kept your relationship so fuzzy and undefined that there's nothing but trouble that's going to come of it. You have now set the definition as "you are not important enough to me to be monogamous with". Girls can take that sort of thing - really, we can - but we get super pissed when...

If a woman isn't getting what she needs out of a relationship, then she'll look for it elsewhere. Look, if I had a boring boyfriend and an unhappy sex life I'd look for outward release too. I don't know if I'd necessarily talk to him while with another man, but I can objectively see how...

My opinion is that it's an economic thing. 100 years ago, families stuck together because economically they had to. Men worked during the day and needed the prestige of having a tidy home and a wife to take care of it. Women were so socially reliant on men that they wouldn't leave a...