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Getting married in about three months. Love my fiancé more than any woman I can imagine. But I have the (strong) urge to hit up the girl(s) who got away... What are they up to? Maybe just to chats? I don't know. But I know I want to call all of them. Normal?

stressing out / rationalizing about being alpha vs. beta = beta. alphas don't care.

this article has to do with online dating -- you may not be into that, but you should still read; i think the underlying theory may still apply. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-mathematics-of-beauty/

correlation does not equal causation... being fat does nothing to make you score poorly on tests. seems more likely it's the other way around. or, even more likely than that, there's a 3rd variable affecting obesity and test scores, like poverty, impulsivity, being generally care-free, etc...

There are many reasons why a text will go unanswered or answered much later. She may not like you, she may be busy and forget, she may be playing hard to get, she may not have her phone on her, the list goes on. Don't stress about it. Act confident and don't be needy. Yes, we are all guilty...

There are no rules if you are confident and not needy. These sorts of rules are really just to keep over-eager men from destroying themselves. Contact her when you want to, but be a man. Women like fearless leaders, not men who choose an arbitrary time period because they are afraid the woman...

I believe women inherently are attracted to strong, fit men. However, as you all know, the human mind is incredibly intelligent. For any number of reasons, a woman may not be attracted to a muscular physique due to her life experiences and general mental condition. (By mental condition, I do...

Sorry for the delay, haven't been online in a while. Well, it worked out like this: (Background info on girl, in case you find relevant: age 27, upper middle class background, a professional w/ graduate degree, and very feminine - not hot pink / high heels / go shopping style feminine, but...

OP - if you believe these feelings are unnaturally or inappropriately interfering with your happiness or life wellness, there is no shame in seeking professional help. The VA will likely be an inexpensive option. I know people who work at the VA hospital, and they are among the best trained...

I did this recently and decided to share my thoughts / outcome from this theory -- credits to Seinfield for the idea and the limited success it gave me. “A preemptive breakup. This is an incredible idea. I got nothing to lose. We either break up which she would do anyway but at least I go...