Recent content by bigmil

LOL that's what I need to hear. Kinda pisses me off but whatever. And this chick isn't really that hot either. I feel like I should be the A plate!

Ok I'm trying to figure this chick out. usually girls respond to me in a very predictable way. It goes something like this: 1. Meet girl , secure date 2. Maintain contact at slow frequency for a few weeks to build interest 3. Girl starts to communicate more and more frequently over...

Ok I haven't been here in years. Way back I had this same kinda oneitis thing with a girl and you guys helped me immensely to get my head straight. Hoping you can help me here. I just started seeing this HB8 last week. She started pursuing me via text after I showed up to a party she...

numbers do build confidence but quality is really what matters. If you're a decent looking guy with a personality you can get laid pretty easy so what does it really matter? It's not really all that important in the grand scheme of things.

My girl got on my computer and found this site. There were some posts on here I made that really pissed her off. Man I'm screwed. It sucks because I really care about her and I think she's gonna dump me. :cuss:

very good post -- accurate too.

Maybe you're a bit homophobic? Sounds like he was just being nice. Nice does not equal gay.

killer advice! I have become lazy. I feel like "I've got her" so I have kept my house messy when I know she's coming over, haven't bothered to do anything exciting with her lately, have definelty not paid as much attention to hygeine, etc. The idea that I had to constantly pump attraction...

I've been seeing my girl Steph for about 8 months now. I'm afraid that she might be flaking on me a bit now. She came over on Monday and we had great passionate sex and just hung out. She e-mailed me a few times this week saying she was hoping I'm doing well. Due to our work schedules we...

I'd be interested in any respopnses to this as well -- I'm in a similar situation with my girl. We've been dating for 8 months and it seems to have stalled a bit.

I needed to hear all that. I gotta evolve. This is bull****.

SoCalMike I think you are right on. I know Ive FVCKed up by asking for it but I felt like I had to say something. Unfortunately I had a big talk with her last night about it. She even told me that by talking about it it made things worse. I have progressively become closer to this girl over...

appearance and demeanor can cause some people to think someone's gay when they're not. If you're really skinny, even slightly androgynous-looking, or if you have a high voice. Don't freak out about this -- you know you're not gay. I would examine it though. Try to emulate masculine...

ok time for an update. BTW thanks for the advice thus far you guys are great. So she was at my condo when I got off work last night. We loaded up my truck and her car and headed to my new house. Had some sushi, drank a few beers, had some decent convo. She was looking real cute. We spent...

good points -- I'm not there yet. Last night she was texting me and im'ed me at work. I asked her to come over Wednesday and help me move to my new house. She said ok and we're going to sleep in the house on an air mattress. I figure who cares if I dont hit it at least Ill put her butt to...