Recent content by Aru

This man is right about the things he has said. After having had quite a bit of real world experience, I can say that there is a difference between reading these words and understanding them on an intellectual level (you believe it, you will choose to play by its rules) and actually...

Then you guys aren't meeting the right women. I'd say most of the women I meet are virgins, or at the very least have had very few sexual partners and experience. If you are going to clubs/bars/parties to meet women, what can else can you expect? Perhaps you guys need a change in venue...

As for wondering whether or not you should take a dance class, I'll say this: Dude, its your own life. You should do what you want and don't worry about what other people (including some of the limited minds on this board) think of you. Thats all I have to say about that. Now as for the...

LJC, I see merit in what LIT says. It makes sense that a woman would want a man to lead her. However, I sense wisdom in your words as well. Let's just say I'm intrigued. I'm curious to know your story. Of your desire to "inject the uncertainty of the dynmaics in human nature" into...

Wow man, you are evidently thinking about this girl WAAY to hard. This is the second time over the course of 2 weeks that you have posted this (just with less info this time). Decide right now (use your gut) whether you want this girl or not. (We already know the answer is yes.) If its truly...

After all this time it happened again. I suppose it was never gone but just lying dormant. Nevertheless it is back: I've got oneitis for the girl. Its probably because the relationship with the girl that I was seeing (casual dating) these past months came to an end recently. My oneitis didn't...

In my opinion this is what happened: You missed alot of obvious signals she was sending you in the beginning, and therefore after a certain amount of time she felt rejected by you. If you've read any of the other threads on what happens when a girl FEELS rejected by a guy even if he never...

I think you're thinking about this way too hard. You probably did well, but you'll end up hurting yourself in the end by overcomplicating this.

Yes and how long do those type of relationships last exactly?

Isn't it funny how the breakup of a LTR with the words "I need to find myself" is rarely about her actually trying to discover who she is/what she wants but more usually includes her lusting after/chasing/fvcking new guys for some period of time and then calling you after she's had her fun to...

Ooh! One other thing I failed to mention: Don't forget the laundry room!! (There is a story I won't even get into about this....)

I'm a sophomore in college and I'm currently dating a girl that I met in my Choir last spring (and we shared 2 semesters of the same physics class). We just started hanging out and it went from there. I met this one girl at the swing dance club on campus. She is insanely hot and sweet. After...

She's not a prude and not really a tease.. So what your saying is, I'm unlikely to ever get any action from this chick? Darn..

I think I ran into a case of ASD (Anti-Slut defense). I'm interested to see what do you guys think. This transpired on Wednesday of last week, but this is the earliest I could post here. Note that I haven't had sex with this girl yet. But my plan was to close her that night. Our final exams...

My stats: I am 6'0'' and weigh 182 lbs. My waist size is 34 in. and my body fat % is about 10.5%. I am 20 years old if that matters. You guys can probably imagine I am not really TOO lean/thin so a skinny guy program probably wouldn't be good. Yet I am also not fat/chunky, so I don't think I...