Recent content by ArizonaDJ

I use the Louis & Copeland system where a first date is a "priming date" and the second date is the "seduction date" with the purpose of getting the woman into bed.

Maybe I just have really bad luck or it's a curse or something but of the chicks I'm dating, there always seems to be two with the same name... then I'm really screwed when they say "hi this is so-and-so" and I STILL don't know who it is! Like right now I have two Julie's and of course they...

If you have more than one bathroom, do what I do. My bathroom that I actually use is attached to my bedroom. Then I have another one off the living room that I NEVER use ... that way it's always spotless and ready to go. ------------------ "... I AM THE GAME, there's no way you can play me!"...

GREAT post! When I finally learned this about 2 years ago, my dating life turned around completely. ------------------ "... I AM THE GAME, there's no way you can play me!" - Motorhead

My new favorite is Dunhill Desire. Escape is the other favorite - chicks go crazy for it.

I know what you mean. What really throws me off about these kinds, who you don't realize are psycho until later, is that they're always the ones who seem so great at the beginning. Always showing high interest, always returning your calls the same day, acting so excited to see you, etc etc...

Poach, you bring up a good point. Wyldfire talks about her friends who get furious over a guy not calling after 4 days. As DJs we've all learned the hard way that while women will complain about those guys, they're also attracted to those guys who don't call and jump into bed with them as soon...

When I get a number I always say "I'll call you next week," that way there's no confusion about it. If a woman says "call me tomorrow" then I'll either say "okay" and call her tomorrow, or I'll say "not sure if I can, I'll call you next week." That way nothing I do can be labeled as...

Yep, that's exactly what I'm doing. It's nice to know there are women out there who don't consider such a thing as being a player!

I'm looking for a good woman but the reality is that you have to do a lot of player things to find one, such as dating many women at once. That's the secret to being a true DJ and being able to actually find "the one." Dating only one woman at a time is worse for your love life/sex life than...

This reminds me of several women I've dated who were intimidated and said they wanted a "regular, average guy" and went back to dating some loser. Sometimes I'm extremely busy and in meetings 12 hours a day and don't have time to call a woman even if I wanted to. When I have free time I like...

True... this book deals more with keeping a conversation alive and how to have the other person talking about themselves the entire time. The key is that if you don't say two words the entire time and you keep the other person talking, they'll consider you a "great conversationalist." Weird...

Like I said, I've never had a problem. Even if a woman does meet another guy, she has serious mental problems if she's so into him after two days that she won't take my call and go out with me. I suppose if you're just looking for a lay then it's ok to call sooner. However, I'm past that and...

Go buy and read "How to Talk To Anyone, Anywhere, Anytime" by Larry King. He's the master bs-er of our day. His book is pretty cheap and an easy read. Even though only one chapter deals with how to talk to women, the entire book is wonderful as to how to start and keep a conversation going...

I'm done with the club scene as well. I've never liked it anyway, even though it's not hard to score an occassional one-night stand. I've been using the internet lately (match.com) which is actually where I met my last gf. I've only met about a half-dozen women total but the ones I did meet...