Recent content by Apex

I understand the importance of eye contact when dealing with people. I am not limiting this to women or business. In general, I don't really have trouble with this anymore, at least not what I can tell. My problem is when I'm in a retail exchange as a customer. I've noticed, I've had more...

Keep this civil, please. I don't know what really happened. I don't really have an opinion. I can't condone rape or any kind of sex offense. 1. If the incidents in question (or a significant number of them) are true, what do you think? 2. If he really is innocent, is there a way to clear his...

I've taken that test. It's worth doing just to learn about yourself. I'm an INFJ, the rarest.

I had the idea to share some of my past experiences. Whether they'll be relevant to anyone, I don't know, but hopefully it will be interesting at least. If this one gets good feedback, I'll probably tell some more in the future. About 15 years ago, I met a girl through a phone dating service...

I only reiterated my disinterest because it surprised me when was there was sudden shift of my attention, like enough for me to notice a change.

I think she maybe did have reddish lipstick. What does that mean? Would I have banged her? Probably, but I wouldn't really want to go beyond that.

I think there is a lot of truth in that assumption. I also think the gender war has already gone hot. How many mass shootings have there been??? I'm anticipating (but not in a good way) the day when the shooter is a woman. If that sounds unlikely, don't kid yourself. Once the red pill is...

I was eating lunch by myself today. I was going into work after, so I wasn't really thinking about meeting any girls. While I was in line ordering, a woman (40 at the youngest) came in with her husband/boyfriend/date. (I think they paid separately for their orders, two names were called, he...

She has to do all of that on her own.

I've been ghosted several times. Confronting doesn't help anything. It only confirms to her you weren't worth being with. On another note, it may turn out you will eventually want to ghost someone. I admit, I have done this. I am not proud of it. The girl was dragging me along for awhile, flip...

Don't get attached to the outcome. Meet her and have fun. No expectations. If you start having any gut feelings like something isn't right (or is too good to be true), you already know it won't work out.

I can look back and see (no puns intended) this stare in several exes. Is this a red flag or is she DTF? If I was looking for an LTR, I would probably avoid any girl having that look.

When I first learned about Robbin Williams' death, my first thought was "What was he thinking?" I know his situation probably had nothing to do with "the one that got away", but I had to remind myself of something. Before I go into that, I will mention that many well meaning people will tell a...

Desperate, maybe clingy and hopefully not psychotic. She'll be available anytime. I never understood why girls didn't like that until it was happening to me.

1. She's not interested. Move on. It's a waste of time. 2. If she's asking to have a third party present, she sees you as a nothing more than a "friend". 3. If you agree to a third party being present trying to be "nice", she may see you as creepy and wants a witness. You have no ill...