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Nah dude. You usually shouldnt have to worry about what she likes to do on a 1st date. Generally 1st date should be something basic like getting coffee/lunch/drinks and now that the weather is starting to get nice (depending on where you are located) maybe follow it up with a nice walk or...

I feel you dude. You sound like you have very little experience as far as talking to females. Nothing wrong with that. Just a few years ago, I had 0 experience. I dont have all that much now, but I have alot more than I used to, and I have overcomed what you are describing. Basically, you gotta...

You didnt make it real clear what exactly you said that you thought was wrong. Just to make sure, you are talking about the part where you said "I love you", right? And your thinking that its too early in the relationship to say that. I think if you obviously said it as a joke, it shouldnt be...

Yup pretty much just approach and say hi, introduce yourself, ask her name. It would be better if you can find a "reason" to stop her or a quick topic that you can talk about such as asking about her clothes or saying "hey I always see you near such and such class I was wondering if you take...

I have some experience with this. I usually just keep talking to the person, showing them that you are friendly and that you like to talk. Keep it light, fun, and basic conversation. If they are shy, they will be abrupt at first but once you start chipping away, they will start to talk a little...

Well there are alot of things that you really should be doing if you want to help get chicks but one good quick way is just to start watching alot of standup comedy and alot of comedy movies. I can add more later but its almost 2am here and yeah im tired.

I think that was not bad what you did. Or you could have just shrugged it off and said ok and not talked to her anymore. However, it has always been my understanding that if the girl says she is not ready for a relationship, that usually just means she is not ready for a relationship with YOU...

Make sure that when you are speaking publicly, you stand straight up, have your shoulders square and your head is up and your eyes are looking out over your audience. Instead of looking down or away or staring at someone or making your eyes zip all over the place, try holding eye contact with...

Thats because alot of girls might not be so interested in those things as you are. My strong point with women is the conversation. Always let them talk. Girls like talking. So let her talk and then just attach some witty remarks or maybe if you have personal experience with what she is saying...

If its a fairly nice day as far as the weather, then try doing something outside for a bit. Most cities or towns have at least some romantic outdoors area where you 2 can hang out for a little while. Take a nice walk somewhere pretty or romantic, or if there is a big flower garden or canal...

I'm generally a fairly persistant guy, but at this point, based on your info, it seems that this woman has no interest in you and you should probably move on. She would have called you at some point if she wanted you at all.

Nope. I think that you go out and meet other chicks. You will completely forget about this one. Then, if you still so desire, you can pick things up when you see her again or when school starts back up. Chalk this one up as a learning experience. You were unable to seal the deal with her, so now...

Yeah I'm really outgoing and fun also. I wonder how I will react when things start happening. I hope everything just comes naturally and smoothly. First hug it was a little awkward...she initiated it and I was like wtf I dont know how to hug people lol.

I am the same way as you, Sharpshooter. It was just assumed that everyone loved everyone in the family, and so love was not expressed in any way. I'm 21 and still havent really experienced or partaken in any real show of love or affection. I have recieved 6 hugs since elementary school. All...

Just try to talk to her once, a quick little friendly convo. Then try to get her #.