"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The fall of Russel brand !!

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Sounds to me like the system is that if you are accused, then you are guilty.
How come?

Sounds to me like a system that will thoroughly research the case , compare it with cases from the past , have discussion about the implications of the judgement and only THEN make a decision.

Or do you rather get judged by people who have zero affinity with the law and put you away for live because you rock a rough beard lol( the soccer moms) ? Cmon now..


So miscarriages of justice never happen. Ever.
Re read it please.

I clearly stated that there will never be a system that satisfies everyone, nor woll there be a waterproof system with zero mistakes. But the R brand case? Thats not a mistake, thats simply great work.

And still I rather be judged by professionals than by a bunch of soccermoms. Do you agree with the latter? I assume you do as you are a man who thinks rational rather than a person/ woman whose guided by feelings and emotions...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think the problem with this case from the evidence that's been released, is that we could all have crystal clear CCTV of the 'rape' with audio including the background and leadup (i.e her rimming him and having a consensual threesome with him prior to the anal rape) and people would still wildly disagree about whether Brand was innocent or guilty (not only amongst men and women but also dependant on when they were born).

Wheeras in the case of someone jumping out of the bushes and raping a teen at knife point, there would be a complete consensus on a guilty verdict
 

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I watched the 'expose' on him a minute ago
(it was also a similar 'expose' that got the wheels turning for the Russell brand thing, so we'll see if people 'come forward' now like that did with Brand)

Won't know anything until IF other girls come forward and with more serious allegations, but from the program it seems that other than some potential 'grooming' (messaging underage gilrs, so under 16) the program mostly concentrate, and make a big deal about him trying too (and sometimes succeeding) in sleeping with lots of young, legal women

But I found myself thinking 'That's not a crime? That's just the way of the world!! Everyone knows that 'fame' is powerful and that men with fame will basically ALL 'exploit' that fame to get laid! I imagine there's probably not a 'famous' person out there who didn't do that lol. It's a bit like being angry at a good looking man for 'expoiting' his good looks to sleep with women?!

We'll see what happens, though. If it follows the same Brand pattern after his TV expose, other girls will now come forward, and depending on the claims, a police investigation will begin

My only 'suggestion' at this point, in terms of UK law, is to work out a way of classifying 'celebrity' under the same rules we have for other 'positions of authority' such as police officers and teachers and social workers, whereby the age of consent becomes 18 instead of 16.


A 'pedo' has always basically mean someone who goes after VERY young/pre pubescent girls to me. Think 9 year olds or whatever
It always annoys me when everyone says 'pedo!!' under like a facebook post of an older man trying to flirt with a 19 year old or whatever lol. Here he would likely be called a 'pedo' for banging a 16 year old, BUT it's legal! If I could be bothered, i'd ask them people 'so by your logic, the UK law allows pedophillia?'. lol
As far as I can tell, Walliams hasn't been accused of a criminal offence.

There's a lot of moral outrage and words such as grooming and inappropriate behaviour being thrown around but asking young women out, texting them or even bedding them isn't an offence if they're over 16.

All this talk of inappropriate behaviour is pernicious. If an offence (or an accusation) has taken place, so - grape, indecent exposure, assault, then say so. Otherwise 'inappropriate' can just become a stick to beat anybody with.

Having said all this, more serious allegations may emerge. Possibly even fabricated stuff from attention seekers, as it seems that it's open season on David Walliams now.
 

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How come?

Sounds to me like a system that will thoroughly research the case , compare it with cases from the past , have discussion about the implications of the judgement and only THEN make a decision.

Or do you rather get judged by people who have zero affinity with the law and put you away for live because you rock a rough beard lol( the soccer moms) ? Cmon now..



Re read it please.

I clearly stated that there will never be a system that satisfies everyone, nor woll there be a waterproof system with zero mistakes. But the R brand case? Thats not a mistake, thats simply great work.

And still I rather be judged by professionals than by a bunch of soccermoms. Do you agree with the latter? I assume you do as you are a man who thinks rational rather than a person/ woman whose guided by feelings and emotions...
Serious criminal offences are not decided by professionals in England. The judge runs proceedings and determines the tariff, the jury (including soccer moms) decides guilt or innocence (plus not proven in Scotland).
 

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As far as I can tell, Walliams hasn't been accused of a criminal offence.

There's a lot of moral outrage and words such as grooming and inappropriate behaviour being thrown around but asking young women out, texting them or even bedding them isn't an offence if they're over 16.

All this talk of inappropriate behaviour is pernicious. If an offence (or an accusation) has taken place, so - grape, indecent exposure, assault, then say so. Otherwise 'inappropriate' can just become a stick to beat anybody with.

Having said all this, more serious allegations may emerge. Possibly even fabricated stuff from attention seekers, as it seems that it's open season on David Walliams now.
you're basically right. 95% of the program centered around how walliams would spend all of his time 'scouting' pretty teengers (16 and over), getting their details through his 'contacts', send her a letter, and askig her out and trying to bang her at his flat. That's completely legal. Even if they are 16.

The only illegal stuff the program centered on was a 'grooming' charge where he'd do the same thing, but to girls who were like 12-15, and then once they were 16 he'd bang them

Another illegal charge was apparently sexually groping a 15 year old who agreed to go with him to his flat

So that charge alone COULD actually land him in jail if they want to make and example of him. For example, there was a footballer here some years back who done like 5 years in jail, and it was a huge case, BUT if you look into the specifics as to what happened with his teenage victim (can't remember but i think she was 15) he only kissed her! (but that's of course counted as sexual assault and they threw the book at him)

So based on that case even now Wallimas 'could' be looking at a stretch

But probably more worrying for him is the potential that this program does exactly what the russell brand program done. Inspires hundreds of other girls to come forward and share their stories. And that's when, if that happens and there's some more serious ones in there, Walliams will also be looking at a long stay in the big house

I iguess i'm wondering does it matter who they make a program abouit adn how do they decide! Becasue I imagine you could throw a thousands celeb names in a hat, pull one out, and if you made a similar hit piece program about them, i'd bet against there'd be tonnes of girls coming out (because famous men will always exploit that fame to get laid)
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Serious criminal offences are not decided by professionals in England. The judge runs proceedings and determines the tariff, the jury (including soccer moms) decides guilt or innocence (plus not proven in Scotland).
Can you provide an example please? And preferably the exact way a jury existing out of regular civilians putting R Brand away in jail?

And do or don't you agree that its a faulty system and way to let soccermoms with zero judicial experience make such important decisions ?

I love to learn so bring it on!
 

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you're basically right. 95% of the program centered around how walliams would spend all of his time 'scouting' pretty teengers (16 and over), getting their details through his 'contacts', send her a letter, and askig her out. That's completely legal. Even if they are 16.

The only illegal stuff the program centered on was a 'grooming' charge where he'd do the same thing, but to girls who were like 12-15, and then once they were 16 he'd bang them

Another illegal charge was apparently sexually groping a 15 year old who agreed to go with him to his flat

So that charge alone COULD actually land him in jail if they want to make and example of him. For example, there was a footballer here some years back who done like 5 years in jail, and it was a huge case, BUT if you look into the specifics as to what happened with his teenage victim (can't remember but i think she was 15) he only kissed her! (but that's of course counted as sexual assault and they threw the book at him)

So based on that case even now Wallimas 'could' be looking at a stretch

But probably more worrying for him is the potential that this program does exactly what the russell brand program done. Inspires hundreds of other girls to come forward and share their stories. And that's when, if that happens and there's some more serious ones in there, Walliams will also be looking at a long stay in the big house

I iguess i'm wondering does it matter who they make a program abouit adn how do they decide! Becasue I imagine you could throw a thousands celeb names in a hat, pull one out, and if you made a similar hit piece program about them, i'd bet against there'd be tonnes of girls coming out (because famous men will always exploit that fame to get laid)
I remember the footballer case. He played for Sunderland or a similar relatively big club. He got some fairly serious porridge I think. Several years.
 

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Can you provide an example please? And preferably the exact way a jury existing out of regular civilians putting R Brand away in jail?

And do or don't you agree that its a faulty system and way to let soccermoms with zero judicial experience make such important decisions ?

I love to learn so bring it on!
In court a prosecution barrister makes the accusations and a defence barrister defends the accused. A jury made up of randomly selected members of the public listens to the allegations and defence, retires and then comes to their decision. Not the judge.

The judge manages these procedures and then decides what penalty is meted out should the defendant be found guilty.

In English law, those accused of serious offences have always had a right to be tried in front of their peers (a jury). On balance, I prefer that to one man's decision (as in a civil court) but it's a difficult one, I admit.
 

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In court a prosecution barrister makes the accusations and a defence barrister defends the accused. A jury made up of randomly selected members of the public listens to the allegations and defence, retires and then comes to their decision. Not the judge.

The judge manages these procedures and then decides what penalty is meted out should the defendant be found guilty.

In English law, those accused of serious offences have always had a right to be tried in front of their peers (a jury). On balance, I prefer that to one man's decision (as in a civil court) but it's a difficult one, I admit.
So its basically similar to the US system? I never knew that, I'll research it and if I'm wrong, im wrong obviously!
 
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