"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Comedian Russell Brand found guilty by UK court of rape and sexual assaults

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The people in the UK who are raping our women are the masses and masses of illegal immigrants and the grooming gangs, yet nothing done about it. Two tier policing. Yet a tip top investigation takes place when on a white male.
I dont think that is true, and perhaps you can back this claim up with stats and facts.

Its crazy that its specifically the white man who feels like he gets the short end of the stick while he is ( or HAS BEEN?) the most privileged for decades. That includes 60+ year old men who could freely travel to Asia, Africa, east Europe and S America qs a sex tourist to sleep with underage girls.

Personally I kinda chuckle when I see how white men react to the entire dating/ love / relationship game,and thats why I wrote" has been" in capitol letters. Because now men from literally every other culture on earth have an easier dating life than western( white ) men.

But here's the craziest part; first ( white )men ( who support the redpill/ manosphere) en masse ignored that DJT was an alleged rapist and voted him in and gave him all the power, and now they run to defend yet another CONVICTED grapist named R. Brands. Or they are " suspicious " that he is done wrong...like wtf???

DJT was epsteijn's bestie, and there are multiple women saying that he graped them when they were around 12( !!!!) ..what more does one need to at LEAST be suspicious about someone than graping childern????? Wtf??

Personally thats WAY beyond where I morally draw the fecking line. I can understand that such allegations can be murky : okay. But I will at very least distance myself from such a person and DEFINITELY won't worship him AND demand opening files. If you innocent, let's prove it TODAY. Not stalling it out untill after your death sir..

Same with Russell.

Nobody gets 10 years just for sh1ts and giggles.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I dont think that is true, and perhaps you can back this claim up with stats and facts.

Its crazy that its specifically the white man who feels like he gets the short end of the stick while he is ( or HAS BEEN?) the most privileged for decades. That includes 60+ year old men who could freely travel to Asia, Africa, east Europe and S America qs a sex tourist to sleep with underage girls.

Personally I kinda chuckle when I see how white men react to the entire dating/ love / relationship game,and thats why I wrote" has been" in capitol letters. Because now men from literally every other culture on earth have an easier dating life than western( white ) men.

But here's the craziest part; first ( white )men ( who support the redpill/ manosphere) en masse ignored that DJT was an alleged rapist and voted him in and gave him all the power, and now they run to defend yet another CONVICTED grapist named R. Brands. Or they are " suspicious " that he is done wrong...like wtf???

DJT was epsteijn's bestie, and there are multiple women saying that he graped them when they were around 12( !!!!) ..what more does one need to at LEAST be suspicious about someone than graping childern????? Wtf??

Personally thats WAY beyond where I morally draw the fecking line. I can understand that such allegations can be murky : okay. But I will at very least distance myself from such a person and DEFINITELY won't worship him AND demand opening files. If you innocent, let's prove it TODAY. Not stalling it out untill after your death sir..

Same with Russell.

Nobody gets 10 years just for sh1ts and giggles.
Hahah, facts and stats, ask anyone from the Uk, quite clear you dont live here. Not everything is about facts and stats. Was Vietnam and Us war about facts and stats, you have to be somewhere and witness things with your own eyes
 

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Hahah, facts and stats, ask anyone from the Uk, quite clear you dont live here. Not everything is about facts and stats. Was Vietnam and Us war about facts and stats, you have to be somewhere and witness things with your own eyes
So you ;

1 . Can't back up your claim but yet expect me ( the reader) to believe you at face value. Thats the worst " trust me bro" I've EVER heard of!

2. You overtly support a man who is a convicted rapist ,a man who wouldn't piss on fire to save YOUR life. ( you said in a previous post previous page you'd pray for russel... perhaps you can pray for his victims as well. Especially IF he actually IS guilty. Would you aks God to woth them too or you just be like " mweh , shyte happens"?)



I really hope you have the cognitive ability to rethink your statements and get out as a better man and a better overall human eventually. Its not " cool" or " edgy" at all.
 

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He is outrightly critical of the sinister government who are only interested in power and control. He has brought to light so may facts in his podcasts, bringing the government to shame
Brand's one of several million podcasters and commentators who's questioned "the narrative"/made unflattering comments about people in high places. He's really not special in that regard, and if anything his leanings have been more Trotskyist than Alt Right

Admitting outright to horning in on 16 year olds when he was 30 hasn't done him any favors
 
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So you ;

1 . Can't back up your claim but yet expect me ( the reader) to believe you at face value. Thats the worst " trust me bro" I've EVER heard of!

2. You overtly support a man who is a convicted rapist ,a man who wouldn't piss on fire to save YOUR life. ( you said in a previous post previous page you'd pray for russel... perhaps you can pray for his victims as well. Especially IF he actually IS guilty. Would you aks God to woth them too or you just be like " mweh , shyte happens"?)



I really hope you have the cognitive ability to rethink your statements and get out as a better man and a better overall human eventually. Its not " cool" or " edgy" at all.
I will end it here because it is getting political now. I do agree with you that Britain has a horrible record when the empire was running.

Also i'm getting a hint of insults from your last sentence which is against forum rules.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Moral of this tale, for our purposes here at SS:

Being self-consciously idiosyncratic(Brand, early/earlyish Johnny Depp)CAN be appealing, especially when a younger man is putting on such a facade. That sh-t stops being cute once a man is into his 40s-all points beyond though, and frequently comes back to bite those who take this approach
 

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Guys I am NOT taking sides here at all but I am somewhat of a legal research junkie, it's what did/do as a paralegal, and found something interesting!

In the UK, there is a provision called "Reasonable Expectation or Belief of Consent" passed in 2003 (I believe after these sexual assaults occurred).

Defined as:

>>"Under UK law (specifically the Sexual Offences Act 2003), consent is defined as agreement by choice, having the freedom and capacity to make that choice (Section 74).

The phrase "reasonable expectation" or "reasonable belief" in consent works as follows:

Reasonable Belief in Consent

"For a person to be found guilty of an offense like rape or sexual assault, the prosecution must prove two things:

1. The complainant did not consent

2. The defendant did not reasonably believe that the complainant consented.

How "Reasonableness" is Judged:

Whether a belief is reasonable depends on all the circumstances, including any steps the defendant took to check whether the complainant actually consented..

No Duty to Inquire Automatically? / Context:

While the law does not set out a rigid mechanical checklist, courts evaluate whether a reasonable person in the defendant's position would have believed there was genuine consent based on the words, actions, and overall context."<<


Like in this case, especially with anal, asking her if she's okay or comfortable during the act. Or her actions/reactions during the act and context. .

The victim first claimed she said "no" in her mind, then later said she explicitly said no.

But assuming she did only say no in her mind, she testified she was bleeding heavily and crying and afterwards RB very crudely said "clean your mess up" so would it have been reasonable for him to believe she did not consent?

It can be a slippery slope.

After working in the legal field for many years, including criminal, and over the summer at the Public Defender's office, in the U.S I do know for a fact people sometimes do get wrongly convicted and/or unfairly sentenced.

Look to what happened in the Duke Lacrosse case many years ago (for example).

That's why plea bargains are often made. I could not find anything stating RB was ever offered a plea bargain.
 
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@Sega Genesis "Like in this case, especially with anal, asking her if she's okay or comfortable during the act. Or her reaction during"

The UK could at least do it's citizens a solid, by specifying:

-Exactly how many times does a fella have to ask the broad he's boffing that? Is once satisfactory, or must he inquire a minimum of 12 times?


-What specific sentence must he utter? Is "Doing okay, honey" sufficient, or is he required to be far more detailed, by saying: "Do you think you may need corrective surgery, if I don't cease and desist thrusting into you immediately?" Verbatim, without any improvisation or deviation, as if he's an actor playing Hamlet onstage at The Old Vic before a live audience numbering in the millions


-At what exact decibels does he have to communicate in? Is speaking in a Chuck Bass-esque whisper acceptable, or must he convey concern for his lady love in glass shattering, Gilbert Gottfried-esque tonalities?

If those of us who reside in The Anglosphere just can't resist the urge to legally regulate every aspect of our daily lives, let's not then do so in the most deliberately vague language imaginable
 
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That's why plea bargains are often made. I could not find anything stating RB was ever offered a plea bargain.
we don't really have plea bargains here as fas as i'm aware. The best bet would be an early guilty plea in order to get a reduced sentence here.
But assuming she did only say no in her mind, she testified she was bleeding heavily and crying and afterwards RB very crudely said "clean your mess up" so would it have been reasonable for him to believe she did not consent?
yes. I mentioned in the other thread about me watching the sentencing live and the judge seemed to harp on about that bit and made me feel as a viewer that he was using it as an 'aggrevating factor' which somewhat goes too explain why the sentence was so harsh. Men jump out of bushes with knives here and rape young girls and they get a much smaller sentence than brand got! Honestly i'm still somewhat in shock at his sentence, and I imagine he is too!
 

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@BaronOfHair I can.only speak to my own experience having anal especially when it's somewhat aggressive, but my boyfriend would always ask "are you okay?" "are you enjoying?" or words to that effect. At least once. And we always made sure we used enough lube.

If he saw I was bleeding heavily and crying which never happened but if it did I trust he would stop.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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@BaronOfHair I can.only speak to my own experience having anal especially when it's somewhat aggressive, but my boyfriend would always ask "are you okay?" "are you enjoying?" or words to that effect. At least once. And we always made sure we used enough lube.

If he saw I was bleeding heavily and crying which never happened but if it did I trust he would stop.
I agree that it's well-mannered, considerate, and thus preferable for a man to do so. I make an effort to behave this way also. Throughout The English speaking world though, we're fixated on LEGALLY regulating what everyone does in the bedroom, to the degrees which are microscopic

THAT I'm not sold on, any more than I am convinced that fishermen and hunters now requiring licenses is an especially wise idea
 
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