"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cheeky_James

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I can only assume it's a mixture of her thinking I was good looking (even if none of her friends would ever describe me as such!) and maybe an element of natural 'chemistry' in terms of the way we connected and bantered. In redpill terms I guess you'd call it 'meeting her looks threshold and having enough 'game' not to mess it up'.

I pulled a very hot girl at a temp job a while ago. I posted her pic here although don't feel comfortable to blast her pic online again, although I think I showed you once. Even with her, after we first had sex and I done my usual 'de-brief' and asked her why she wanted me, she said she thought I was' super fit' (which means handsome here) and wanted me from when she first saw me. Now.... i'm not good looking, really. Confirmed by my rejection rate and my almost ZERO tinder matches!!! lol. But she thought I was

Honestly, with a cold approach, I can usually tell VERY fast. In the case of a girl who is clearly not interested and wouldn't be even if I had mystery and tyler and jeffy and todd and Ross Jefferries all feeding me the perfect lines to say through an earpiece! With them girls I'd say I can tell within like 3 seconds. Interestingly, it's the same with 'pros' in infeilds. I can tell extremely fast after their open whether this infield will go somewhere or whether it'll go in their 'rejection compilation'. When I think 'she's not interetsed', he can never ever turn it around even with his 'coach level game'


Not sure. Like, I think you can approach a girl who maybe thinks you are 'quite good looking' and she's not gonna reject you on your looks, but she'll want to 'feel' some sort of chemistry (that's not really needed with 'chad'. OR she 'feels' it instantly with him. It's just different and she interprates that raw attraction as 'chemistry'). So that could take longer in them instances. I'd guess 10 mins or so but i'd only be guessing. I guess that's why many dates (assuming the guy isn't a cat fish) don't work out
it’s interesting that you can tell in 3 seconds when it’s a red light /no progression.

But with a woman you think it takes 10 mins her side.

And that yet with a Chad guy it’s instant chemistry for the woman.

I guess with the guy who’s just at her looks threshold .. there may be 5 such guys pursuing her.
And the ten mins is to assess if this guy has anything different to offer vs other 4 interested of similar value.

So he’s just a maybe until he can show any other value in the 10 mins.

maybe if he has more intelligence he gets in (which comes out in his humour and banter).
Or he is more assertive than the others.

Or money. Social status and social connections.
He knows the DJ, has party drugs, VIP tickets, etc

depends on the chick I suppose.
In bars and clubs I’d say it’s the latter 3 tbh :rofl:

I think assertiveness is very key tbh. Having a ‘Boss’ or Alpha vibe from the start.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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this is the kind of BS that is rife on this forum.
JayZ the billionaire with his super high status….

“Oh but it was his ‘charisma’ that swung it for him to get Beyoncé.” :rolleyes: “so therefore. logically. this proves proves -> blah blah blah”

this is like a Quantum Leap of low IQ …linking those things all together and applying it to the average guy (or even worse )the ugly guy ..as some ‘transferable’ magic charisma as a root factor of better success with women. That charisma is the great equalizer.

as if charisma stands on its own and can be learned/gained by the average guy or ugly guy.

jayZ ‘s mad ‘charisma’ comes from his Billions and his super success in music . His super -high STATUS bro. His influence.
FML

Ie- His Money and his Power.

As Charisma = Mad Power and influence.

that’s the meaning of the word. Look it up.
If you say that one example blahblahblah then we can apply that to everything anyone says.

I think you have trouble reading; I said that they are BOTH filthy rich thus it evens each other out. Its not like Beyonce works at Starbucks while Jay is a superstar.



@UK manc
Can u let up w that sh1t mate?
Post up some pics of your amazing body or else put a sock in it bro. Seriously.

have you gotten laid from cold approach yet?
I can’t find your Lay reports on here…
Shut up dude. Posting pictures from your homie while you want privacy AND asking other to post pictures while again you value your privacy...thats hypocritical...

One thing is for sure; your the best troll we've seen in a while!
 

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it’s interesting that you can tell in 3 seconds when it’s a red light /no progression.

But with a woman you think it takes 10 mins her side.

And that yet with a Chad guy it’s instant chemistry for the woman.
I think it gets a bit complicated because it falls into the 'maybe girls' territory.
So, a chad only really gets 'yes girls'. He approaches, she's massively attracted, he just needs to not pi$$ his pants and he'll get her. The 'chemistry' she thinks she feels is more just raw attraction.
I can tell in 3 seconds when it's a red light, but so can she. I'm not saying it takes her 10 mins to decide you're a red and nothing you can say will make her want to jump your bones. I thinkk (and feel like even infield proves) she makes that decision just as fast as me and you. A guy SHE considers way too old and fat and bald and ugly to HER tastes falls into the 'no' camp in a second or 2.
The 10 mins example was more of a guess, and it was in relation to her feeling 'chemistry' with a guy who isn't her 'henry cavill' but also not a hard 'insta no'. That's why I used the online date examples. You go on a date and assuming you didn't catfish her, there's some level of physical attraction there. Maybe not super high. But I think if you can make her laugh and show confidence and all that stuff then she might feel that 'chemistry'. Hope that makes sense. We were kind of discussing slightly different things I think

But the most important thing to me personally, is that on a cold approach, and especially on a hot young girl, she does indeed need to think you are hot /good looking (to her tastes). All the 'pushpull' and teasing and NLP verbals and whatever else we call 'game' just isn't gonna move the needle if that raw attraction isn't there
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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