Abundance

[TheGambino]

I finally did it. I feel abundance, that was the whole issue. When you finally realize women are little children and you understand the dynamics fully you become detached.

now after so many years training myself I fully feel abundance, its such a free and relaxed feeling. I came back to say that.

 

[Serenity]

You joined this forum around the time I did and I've followed your saga through the years. I'm happy you finally get it (assuming you actually do), it sucks to do this blind. Many times you have denied experienced members pretty much screaming at how you're making mistakes and you didn't listen/understand. I hope you have finally found your way.

 

[BadBoy89]

I finally did it. I feel abundance, that was the whole issue.

When did it happen, yesterday at 1:00 pm?

 

[Serenity]

When did it happen, yesterday at 1:00 pm?

Seems to be yesterday at 12:04 PM in my timezone (UTC +1). Give him a break, do you have any idea how hard it is to live life as clueless?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

No offense to @OP but consider this:

This idea of "finally figuring it out" is very often a cope.

1) You try to engage successfully with women and keep coming up short.

2) You come to the "conclusion" that you are "above" the game for whatever reason.

3) The "reason" you come up with varies, but it's often a negative label you give to those who won't give you what you want. (e.g. women are children, I finally understand it now, etc.)

4) You now glow in your newfound "awareness' or "realization" or "red pill truth."

So, how do you know whether this is a legit leveling up of your understanding of the world or just a cope?

In this case, if an outside observer would notice you are much, much more successful with women, then it's legit.

But if you need to explain this to people, because it's more of an "attitude" then it's a cope rather than a realization.

This is the basic structure of Aesop's "sour grapes," which is as old as time.