"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yes and since the human body is capable of only gaining about 2 lbs of muscle per month max (if you do everything right: nutrition, lifting, sleeping, etc) unless you are on steroids, 50 lbs of that was fat or water or some combination for the two.
Man ... What would be the point of posting health and fitness stuff on Sosuave if it wasn't challenging the status quo? I mentioned this numerous times in other posts and maybe in this thread too. But I come from severe obesity. I also had a lot of health issues back in the day. That's why I'm trying this.

It's NOT possible to achieve my goals with the average and the normal.

But again ... if you or any other people want to read about something that has already been established, just delete Health and Fitness. There are better sources and far more specialized people than me or you ... or any other person on this forum. Somehow, I was under the impression that a DJ was an extraordinary person all around. Therefore, I imagine this forum is a gathering of people that forged their own paths. Some perhaps in unique ways.

Hence, my name you made fun of.

"Arete (Ancient Greek: ἀρετή, romanized: aretḗ) is a concept in ancient Greek thought that refers to "excellence" of any kind—especially a person or thing's "full realization of potential or inherent function."

It's disappointing for me to get judged like this.

Instead of trash-talking me, how about you wait some more months until I post my results? That reply seems kind of weak for a guy like you. Honestly, I respect you. Your arguments are mostly objective. But this one seems a bit different.

If you, as a mod, do this, I don't know if playing the long game here would have any point. Can't you just ban me eventually? lol

Please give me an answer to this. I'm not the type to back down unless I'm proven wrong by the world itself. If this is how it will go eventually, make it now.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Man ... What would be the point of posting health and fitness stuff on Sosuave if it wasn't challenging the status quo? I mentioned this numerous times in other posts and maybe in this thread too. But I come from severe obesity. I also had a lot of health issues back in the day. That's why I'm trying this.

It's NOT possible to achieve my goals with the average and the normal.

But again ... if you or any other people want to read about something that has already been established, just delete Health and Fitness. There are better sources and far more specialized people than me or you ... or any other person on this forum. Somehow, I was under the impression that a DJ was an extraordinary person all around. Therefore, I imagine this forum is a gathering of people that forged their own paths. Some perhaps in unique ways.

Hence, my name you made fun of.

"Arete (Ancient Greek: ἀρετή, romanized: aretḗ) is a concept in ancient Greek thought that refers to "excellence" of any kind—especially a person or thing's "full realization of potential or inherent function."

It's disappointing for me to get judged like this.

Instead of trash-talking me, how about you wait some more months until I post my results? That reply seems kind of weak for a guy like you. Honestly, I respect you. Your arguments are mostly objective. But this one seems a bit different.

If you, as a mod, do this, I don't know if playing the long game here would have any point. Can't you just ban me eventually? lol

Please give me an answer to this. I'm not the type to back down unless I'm proven wrong by the world itself. If this is how it will go eventually, make it now.
I don't need to wait. Defying the laws of biology is not possible and trying to play me like I'm a fool will not end well for you.

I've done this for too long and have done far too much research to know what is and isn't possible. I've been in the gym probably longer than you've been alive.

Eating raw meat changes absolutely zero of any of that.
 

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I've done this for too long and have done far too much research to know what is and isn't possible. I've been in the gym probably longer than you've been alive.
I can tell. That's why I prefer talking with people younger than me. Past 25, everyone starts becoming a "know it all". Although there are a lot of people on SoSuave where this doesn't apply. The point remains, everyone past a certain age (including myself) should learn from the younger generation.

I'm saying it again. You became good with women by trial and error. Not theory.

It is incomprehensible why someone like you who must have faced hardships insists on secondhand knowledge. Scientists are no gods.

On women, you have been 100% forced to harshly self reflect at some point, otherwise you wouldn't be on this forum. You did not care for scientists. We have that much in common.

On nutrition, however, you probably didn't ever face any serious health issues yourself in your life? You have never been forced to harshly self-reflect through trial and error.

Do the same with nutrition what you did to get women and we can talk. Imagine I, as a newbie DJ lectured you on how to get women because of whatever science says? "Defying the laws of human psychology is not possible!!!" Sigh ...

trying to play me like I'm a fool will not end well for you.
You sound like you're some stereotype on a power trip. One thing I learned as a DJ is that women and people in general tend to do what they do anyway. I don't think I've broken any rules so far, but pissing of the owner of the "place" will sooner or later end in the inevitable. If you're gonna do it, just do it.

If you want an echo chamber on sosuave, feel free to ban me. I dont think there is much in for me either way if I have to watch my words.

Here is a quote of someone extraordanary that left the forum a long time ago. Im starting to see why ...

"A Man, does not go through life walking on eggshells" - Pook

Please give me an answer to this.
I expect something concrete. Do you ban people over big disagreements or not? I'm having a hard time getting a grasp on your personality because it's written form. If you don't answer clearly, I don't think I will continue posting on this forum. Getting banned on a whim is not appealing.

Might be my final post, so I leave that here in advance:

Shootouts to everyone that gave me advice on my DJ ambition! Much appreciated.
 
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I can tell. That's why I prefer talking with people younger than me. Past 25, everyone starts becoming a "know it all". Although there are a lot of people on SoSuave where this doesn't apply. The point remains, everyone past a certain age (including myself) should learn from the younger generation.

I'm saying it again. You became good with women by trial and error. Not theory.

It is incomprehensible why someone like you who must have faced hardships insists on secondhand knowledge. Scientists are no gods.

On women, you have been 100% forced to harshly self reflect at some point, otherwise you wouldn't be on this forum. You did not care for scientists. We have that much in common.

On nutrition, however, you probably didn't ever face any serious health issues yourself in your life? You have never been forced to harshly self-reflect through trial and error.

Do the same with nutrition what you did to get women and we can talk. Imagine I, as a newbie DJ lectured you on how to get women because of whatever science says? "Defying the laws of human psychology is not possible!!!" Sigh ...



You sound like you're some stereotype on a power trip. One thing I learned as a DJ is that women and people in general tend to do what they do anyway. I don't think I've broken any rules so far, but pissing of the owner of the "place" will sooner or later end in the inevitable. If you're gonna do it, just do it.

If you want an echo chamber on sosuave, feel free to ban me. I dont think there is much in for me either way if I have to watch my words.

Here is a quote of someone extraordanary that left the forum a long time ago. Im starting to see why ...

"A Man, does not go through life walking on eggshells" - Pook



I expect something concrete. Do you ban people over big disagreements or not? I'm having a hard time getting a grasp on your personality because it's written form. If you don't answer clearly, I don't think I will continue posting on this forum. Getting banned on a whim is not appealing.

Might be my final post, so I leave that here in advance:

Shootouts to everyone that gave me advice on my DJ ambition! Much appreciated.
Yeah, translation "I would rather talk to people who don't know their ass from their elbows who will actually believe me."

Go peddle your bullsh!t to someone else. I'm all stocked up here.

Because not only have I been lifting for 30 years, I also have reached levels of strength that most people don't even consider possible, let alone are willing to push themselves multiple times past their self imposed limits and the necessary pain that comes with it to reach.

There is a difference between people who have done things for a long time and those who have done it at an elite level for a long time.
 
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I can tell. That's why I prefer talking with people younger than me. Past 25, everyone starts becoming a "know it all". Although there are a lot of people on SoSuave where this doesn't apply. The point remains, everyone past a certain age (including myself) should learn from the younger generation.

I'm saying it again. You became good with women by trial and error. Not theory.

It is incomprehensible why someone like you who must have faced hardships insists on secondhand knowledge. Scientists are no gods.

On women, you have been 100% forced to harshly self reflect at some point, otherwise you wouldn't be on this forum. You did not care for scientists. We have that much in common.

On nutrition, however, you probably didn't ever face any serious health issues yourself in your life? You have never been forced to harshly self-reflect through trial and error.

Do the same with nutrition what you did to get women and we can talk. Imagine I, as a newbie DJ lectured you on how to get women because of whatever science says? "Defying the laws of human psychology is not possible!!!" Sigh ...



You sound like you're some stereotype on a power trip. One thing I learned as a DJ is that women and people in general tend to do what they do anyway. I don't think I've broken any rules so far, but pissing of the owner of the "place" will sooner or later end in the inevitable. If you're gonna do it, just do it.

If you want an echo chamber on sosuave, feel free to ban me. I dont think there is much in for me either way if I have to watch my words.

Here is a quote of someone extraordanary that left the forum a long time ago. Im starting to see why ...

"A Man, does not go through life walking on eggshells" - Pook



I expect something concrete. Do you ban people over big disagreements or not? I'm having a hard time getting a grasp on your personality because it's written form. If you don't answer clearly, I don't think I will continue posting on this forum. Getting banned on a whim is not appealing.

Might be my final post, so I leave that here in advance:

Shootouts to everyone that gave me advice on my DJ ambition! Much appreciated.
I've rarely banned anyone to be honest. And that wasn't a ban threat, the nonsense you are posting regarding this will expose you like a person undressed because half of the claims you are making in this thread are simply provably false scientifically.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't need to wait.
Yeah, translation "I would rather talk to people who don't know their ass from their elbows who will actually believe me."
Go peddle your bullsh!t to someone else. I'm all stocked up here.
I'm doing this for everyone that might be interested. Not to prove myself. My intention is to help people. If you're already in great health and have no reason to try it, that's good in its own way.

I've rarely banned anyone to be honest. And that wasn't a ban threat,
Despite our disagreement, I think it's respectable of you to be straightforward about this. Thanks.

the nonsense will make you exposed like a person undressed because half of the claims you are making in this thread are simply provably false scientifically.
And I'm telling you for the hundredth time, what people manage to pull off here with women is also scientifically "provably false", yet apparently it happens. Who cares what some psychologists claim?

This entire thing is an experiment. One that has gone well for me, SO FAR. If it goes wrong at some point it would be pure evil to not state this clearly and warn others. If this diet goes wrong at some point, I will immediately post an update unless I'm either banned or dead.

The normal posts will be regardless of outcome. I try to be unbiased, but we are humans, we are biased one way or the other. I'm no exception. What I will do is give my best to simply state that I did and that happened. Reporting cause and effect. Everyone can make his own opinion about that.

In fact, I just got an idea.

I need two volunteers. This would make things drastically more clear if this is legit or not. Even more so, if I could get some long-term suave members with some credibility.


Severe Balding
  • Presumed cure: black pepper + water, topical use
  • Requirements: 30-40 years or older and practically nothing left to lose. Ideally confirmed by medical professionals as "hopeless"
  • Time: very low

Severe Skin issues
  • Presumed cure: Hot baths, 101-110F°, 45-90 minutes, 2x/week
  • Requirements: 20-50 years old, solid cardiovascular health. Ideally confirmed by medical professionals as "incurable"
  • Time: medium

These are the most low-risk parts of the diet. If anyone feels brave, please PM me and we will talk about the details. In the future I might make a separate tread, asking for volunteers.

Note: I won't take anyone. Some basic discipline is a requirement.

Btw, BackInTheGame78, if you or anyone close to you also on the forum has one of these problems, please PM me too. If it shows no effect, there would be no better proof, right?
 
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