Top tier guys

[Cheeky_James]

I have to post this.

I recently saw someone (whom I won’t mention ) give an example of Dua Lipa and her partner Callum Turner. And rate her a 9 and him a 7-8 guy. Theorising it was more than just his looks etc that got him Dua Lipa.

I had to google Callum Turner.
(Actor and former UK fashion Model)

Guys. If anyone here thinks Callum Turner is a 7-8 ya need your head checked and SMV meter recalibrated. Asap.
Turner is Top Tier guy - aka Tall, Dark & Handsome. A 10/10.

as is this guy Ghandy

And this guy Jaric

This low smv rating madness needs to stop!!
CJ

 

[BeExcellent]

Ghandy is the only attractive man of those 3 imo. Sincerely, the old lady.

None are fat, and I have nothing but looks to go on....but yeah, only the one is attractive in my book.

 

[Cheeky_James]

Ghandy is the only attractive man of those 3 imo. Sincerely, the old lady.

None are fat, and I have nothing but looks to go on....but yeah, only the one is attractive in my book.

LMAO

 

[Atom Smasher]

You’re very focused on looks. Your job is to make her FEEL.
Looks can sometimes be a foot in the door, but let me tell you, you can easily alter a woman’s assessment of how you look by making her feel good vibes about you. Unlike men where a woman’s looks are locked in, it’s entirely different with women. Their perceptions are malleable.
I think that the looks focus holds men back more than any other factor. It’s an unnecessary barrier that men create for themselves. It’s there because you believe it’s there.
I learned in my 50s that less than stellar genetic looks can easily be compensated for. I simply decided to believe it once the light was turned on in my little brain.
Concern about genetic looks is folly, and comparison is your enemy. Do what you can to maximize your looks within reason, and then make sure your wardrobe is neat and clean, and you will be more than halfway there. The rest is knowing that you can develop your personality to make her FEEL good things. That’s another study in and of itself.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I have to post this.

I recently saw someone (whom I won’t mention ) give an example of Dua Lipa and her partner Callum Turner. And rate her a 9 and him a 7-8 guy. Theorising it was more than just his looks etc that got him Dua Lipa.

I had to google Callum Turner.
(Actor and former UK fashion Model)

Guys. If anyone here thinks Callum Turner is a 7-8 ya need your head checked and SMV meter recalibrated. Asap.
Turner is Top Tier guy - aka Tall, Dark & Handsome. A 10/10.

as is this guy Ghandy

And this guy Jaric

This low smv rating madness needs to stop!!
CJ

The bizarre homoerotic obsession with Chad continues.

BTW, that 7/8 is an ACTOR!

Status, consensus, social proof and criminality and transgressive behavior far outweigh looks.

Gee, I wonder how this happened?!

 

[Manure Spherian]

Wow, how come this guy had women throwing themselves at at him?

 

[Identikit_Radiohead]

The bizarre homoerotic obsession with Chad continues.

BTW, that 7/8 is an ACTOR!

Status, consensus, social proof and criminality and transgressive behavior far outweigh looks.

Gee, I wonder how this happened?! View attachment 15947

99.999999% of men won't ever achieve the status of Joe Pesci. Guy had millions, was status-maxxed so of course he could punch through the roof and get a fit blonde 7-8/10. He was a 4/10 in his prime.

If Joe Pesci was say just a factory operative, plumber, builders hand, van driver on a normal or normal-low income, he'd get an overweight perhaps obese, ugly woman, even if he 'lifted' weights and was lean & fit in his spare time. He'd be with a 2 or 3/10 fat ugly woman.

I just have to laugh at you guys using rich high status men as 'proof' that men can date desirable-looking women.

Tons of things have changed since the 80's and 90's as well, such as internet, cellphones, smartphones and double the amount of overweight/obese/ugly people compared to 30 years ago etc. You're now not only competing with not just a few local men for 1 slim average girl, but thousands of men nationally and internationally for a non-overweight "Mid" woman. Not that 7.5/10 blonde hottie seen with Pesci in the picture, i'm talking a non-fat "5" here.