"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cheeky_James

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I have to post this.

I recently saw someone (whom I won’t mention ) give an example of Dua Lipa and her partner Callum Turner. And rate her a 9 and him a 7-8 guy. Theorising it was more than just his looks etc that got him Dua Lipa.

I had to google Callum Turner.
(Actor and former UK fashion Model)

Guys. If anyone here thinks Callum Turner is a 7-8 ya need your head checked and SMV meter recalibrated. Asap.
Turner is Top Tier guy - aka Tall, Dark & Handsome. A 10/10.



as is this guy Ghandy


And this guy Jaric


This low smv rating madness needs to stop!!
CJ
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Atom Smasher

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You’re very focused on looks. Your job is to make her FEEL.
Looks can sometimes be a foot in the door, but let me tell you, you can easily alter a woman’s assessment of how you look by making her feel good vibes about you. Unlike men where a woman’s looks are locked in, it’s entirely different with women. Their perceptions are malleable.
I think that the looks focus holds men back more than any other factor. It’s an unnecessary barrier that men create for themselves. It’s there because you believe it’s there.
I learned in my 50s that less than stellar genetic looks can easily be compensated for. I simply decided to believe it once the light was turned on in my little brain.
Concern about genetic looks is folly, and comparison is your enemy. Do what you can to maximize your looks within reason, and then make sure your wardrobe is neat and clean, and you will be more than halfway there. The rest is knowing that you can develop your personality to make her FEEL good things. That’s another study in and of itself.
 

Manure Spherian

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I have to post this.

I recently saw someone (whom I won’t mention ) give an example of Dua Lipa and her partner Callum Turner. And rate her a 9 and him a 7-8 guy. Theorising it was more than just his looks etc that got him Dua Lipa.

I had to google Callum Turner.
(Actor and former UK fashion Model)

Guys. If anyone here thinks Callum Turner is a 7-8 ya need your head checked and SMV meter recalibrated. Asap.
Turner is Top Tier guy - aka Tall, Dark & Handsome. A 10/10.



as is this guy Ghandy


And this guy Jaric


This low smv rating madness needs to stop!!
CJ
The bizarre homoerotic obsession with Chad continues.

BTW, that 7/8 is an ACTOR!

Status, consensus, social proof and criminality and transgressive behavior far outweigh looks.

Gee, I wonder how this happened?! IMG_0186.jpeg
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Manure Spherian

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Wow, how come this guy had women throwing themselves at at him? IMG_0192.jpeg
 
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