"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do I have to be an @sshole and ‘bad boy’ with this chick?

Gamisch

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You are pretty far from a badboy...what's going to happen when she wants to fvck and finds out you are a poser?
Matter of fact; iirc OP said he wants marriage before sex...

With all due respect, but in this day and age its an uphill battle. A woman's heart is located in her p00sy. So to putnit bluntly; its a nonsensical approach to get women (imo).

I dont understand why he doesn't use his time and financial freedom as leverage. If anything, this woman is a certified player who love bombs him because she knows what kinda man she's dealing with...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Matter of fact; iirc OP said he wants marriage before sex...

With all due respect, but in this day and age its an uphill battle. A woman's heart is located in her p00sy. So to putnit bluntly; its a nonsensical approach to get women (imo).

I dont understand why he doesn't use his time and financial freedom as leverage. If anything, this woman is a certified player who love bombs him because she knows what kinda man she's dealing with...
She has a bitter attitude towards men as it seems because her ex cheated on her and was a womanizer. I wouldn't doubt she has a player side about her because she owns a condo in Manila.
 

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She has a bitter attitude towards men as it seems because her ex cheated on her and was a womanizer. I wouldn't doubt she has a player side about her because she owns a condo in Manila.
???

Wait?
Can you elaborate on what happened? I believe there's a valuable lesson hidden within this interaction!

Because as far as we ( forum members) know she came across as warm and silly. But, to ME it was a red flag because I've dealt with tons of women like this! Im far from surprised .

Yet, inorder to teach men you should share how you came to this conclusion.
 
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