"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do I have to be an @sshole and ‘bad boy’ with this chick?

Gamisch

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You are pretty far from a badboy...what's going to happen when she wants to fvck and finds out you are a poser?
Matter of fact; iirc OP said he wants marriage before sex...

With all due respect, but in this day and age its an uphill battle. A woman's heart is located in her p00sy. So to putnit bluntly; its a nonsensical approach to get women (imo).

I dont understand why he doesn't use his time and financial freedom as leverage. If anything, this woman is a certified player who love bombs him because she knows what kinda man she's dealing with...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Matter of fact; iirc OP said he wants marriage before sex...

With all due respect, but in this day and age its an uphill battle. A woman's heart is located in her p00sy. So to putnit bluntly; its a nonsensical approach to get women (imo).

I dont understand why he doesn't use his time and financial freedom as leverage. If anything, this woman is a certified player who love bombs him because she knows what kinda man she's dealing with...
She has a bitter attitude towards men as it seems because her ex cheated on her and was a womanizer. I wouldn't doubt she has a player side about her because she owns a condo in Manila.
 

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She has a bitter attitude towards men as it seems because her ex cheated on her and was a womanizer. I wouldn't doubt she has a player side about her because she owns a condo in Manila.
???

Wait?
Can you elaborate on what happened? I believe there's a valuable lesson hidden within this interaction!

Because as far as we ( forum members) know she came across as warm and silly. But, to ME it was a red flag because I've dealt with tons of women like this! Im far from surprised .

Yet, inorder to teach men you should share how you came to this conclusion.
 
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