An interesting conversation with my sister about what makes a man of value attractive

[BaronOfHair]

@jhonny9546 "This confirms that women really don't have the intelligence to understand whether a man is trying hard but still can't achieve results..."

Someone who's trying really hard, yet not getting further ahead = Someone with a miniscule - non-existent capacity for self-reflection, who probably isn't going to formulate questions such as:

-"Is my approach to whatever I'm attempting well-thought out?"

-"Am I investing an immense amount of resources into a venture who's potential ROI is abysmal?"

-"Given my current strengths and talents, is the goal I'm pursuing one that I have a liklihood of achieving? Am I likely to pass The Q Course at Fort Bragg, when I'm 80something and ailing with emphysema which appears to be terminal ?"

This isn't an attractive person

 

[jhonny9546]

This isn't an attractive person

I don't agree.
You may need 10 or 20 years to be successful while asking yourself all these questions you wrote down.

Recalibration takes time.
This doesn't mean that you aren't attractive because you don't bring home the result.
You gotta do it for yourself man.

Then when you are successful they will all want to be around you