Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward

[tesla8520]

They say it's hard to find men of value this days

So they bring up the fact that the problem with men today, which keeps them low-value, is that they don't put in the effort to improve OBVIOUS things like Status, Looks, and Money. (I underlined OBVIOUS to illustrate how women say that a man shoudl be working on their personality, but then they means OBVIOUS things,, even though they've always said otherwise.)

Also, beign toxic, misogynistic, and patriarchal isn't really the root of the problem, so the fact that men treat women badly, that they're toxic, that they don't care, isn't really the root of the problem as they want us to believe.


Then:




After clarifying what makes a man valuable, as we told is primarily his appearance, followed by his status and money, not his behavior, it's also reported that once a woman enters a relationship with one of these men, "whom she doesn't really like that much," she will feel lonely, even if they are married and have children, because now He have this "high value" man, but she "feels" alone just because it's not what she wanted?

On top of that, we know that, there are many attractive men who don't get caged into LTR, precisely because women want more power in the relationship and are therefore insecure about being unable to control him, so women would select an unattractive guy for that role.

What are your opinions as a man on this? What do you think is true, and what would you like to add?

 

[jhonny9546]

This might be my opinion, but most men are single and lonely because of their standards.

Let me say they'll go for "aboundance," but they actually don't realize how few partners or getting laid they'll have in their lives.

Then, it's not about "quantity" but "consistency," so if you never had problems with getting sex from women, at least you always had one of your needs met.

For many, many men out there, they're not even getting that need met.

So we should also know how to tell ourselves that we have the capacity to lower our standards a little, rather than falling into rather long dry spells.

It's better to have your need for sex satisfied and accept some compromises, rather than having to focus and work on satisfying it.

That can take away more important attention that you should be dedicating to other things in your life.

 

[Solomon]

A lot of this hits. Looks, status, and money are the obvious entry points, especially with younger women. Physical attraction is king upfront.

But the main reason so many men are struggling is the mindset with women. Especially the ones overconsuming red pill content. Which manifests itself through how a man acts/speaks etc around women. Women can tell when a man loathes them or views them as beneath him. That subtle resentment leaks out and kills attraction fast. Just go on X or any social media and see how these dudes talk about women, or watch a red pill podcast and read the comments. It sounds like a mob of cackling incels.

Look at Gen Z men for example, most are unemployed or underemployed, a third still live with their parents, and they have the lowest testosterone levels since the Silent Generation. As a man you need to offer a woman something, even if it's just a good experience.
Fix the internal first. Stack your fitness, money, and abundance mindset, then approach from strength, not bitterness. Lock in.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I'm not sure.

But this part of your post stood out:

On top of that, we know that, there are many attractive men who don't get caged into LTR, precisely because women want more power in the relationship and are therefore insecure about being unable to control him, so women would select an unattractive guy for that role.

I have begun to increasingly suspect this is the case. However I don't think it's so much about how attractive the guy is but how weak willed he is. I would assume a woman would rather be with an attractive man who's spineless than an unattractive man who's spineless...

Nowadays, women do not seem to want a man with strong frame and boundaries, they want a man they can manipulate. Women are totally drunk with power right now from feminism, social media, etc. I think their main MO is to have all power in a relationship so they can use the security and validation that a spineless simp provides them in order to exercise their options. Basically, they want a security blanket they can fall back on so they can go cheat and monkey branch. It's absolutely sickening behavior.

Any woman who has lots of guy friends, lots of single hoe friends that she goes out with, travels alone, or who posts lots of thirst trap pics on social media should be 100% regarded by all men as recreational use only. But as it stands... most men nowadays are desperate, chicken**** spineless faggots, and they only end up rewarding this type of behavior from women...

 

[BadBoy89]

Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward

Women aren’t lonely and single because they are toxic, abusive, and entitled, they‘re lonely and single because they are unattractive, older, and non virgins.