Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward

[tesla8520]

They say it's hard to find men of value this days

So they bring up the fact that the problem with men today, which keeps them low-value, is that they don't put in the effort to improve OBVIOUS things like Status, Looks, and Money. (I underlined OBVIOUS to illustrate how women say that a man shoudl be working on their personality, but then they means OBVIOUS things,, even though they've always said otherwise.)

Also, beign toxic, misogynistic, and patriarchal isn't really the root of the problem, so the fact that men treat women badly, that they're toxic, that they don't care, isn't really the root of the problem as they want us to believe.


Then:




After clarifying what makes a man valuable, as we told is primarily his appearance, followed by his status and money, not his behavior, it's also reported that once a woman enters a relationship with one of these men, "whom she doesn't really like that much," she will feel lonely, even if they are married and have children, because now He have this "high value" man, but she "feels" alone just because it's not what she wanted?

On top of that, we know that, there are many attractive men who don't get caged into LTR, precisely because women want more power in the relationship and are therefore insecure about being unable to control him, so women would select an unattractive guy for that role.

What are your opinions as a man on this? What do you think is true, and what would you like to add?

 

[jhonny9546]

This might be my opinion, but most men are single and lonely because of their standards.

Let me say they'll go for "aboundance," but they actually don't realize how few partners or getting laid they'll have in their lives.

Then, it's not about "quantity" but "consistency," so if you never had problems with getting sex from women, at least you always had one of your needs met.

For many, many men out there, they're not even getting that need met.

So we should also know how to tell ourselves that we have the capacity to lower our standards a little, rather than falling into rather long dry spells.

It's better to have your need for sex satisfied and accept some compromises, rather than having to focus and work on satisfying it.

That can take away more important attention that you should be dedicating to other things in your life.