Would you prefer a single woman with no experience or single mom who already has experience with kids?

[tesla8520]

Finding women without children is really difficult.
After 35/40, the market shrinks and there will be single mothers, or even women in unsatisfactory relationships ready to pack their bags.

For a Long term partner relationship, would you prefer a 32 yo single woman with no experience or a 32 yo single mother who already has experience and has demonstrated excellent qualities as a mother?

 

[BaronOfHair]

I stopped romanticizing virgins by age 15. Otherwise, this is a matter of balance:

Monumental differnce between a 21 year old gal who's had lovers and a 36 year old woman's who never married or produced off-spring + Been run through by half The Eastern Seaboard

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

single mom who already has experience with kids?

You want to bang a mom who is a pedo? WTF?

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Im not into single moms. Not at the moment anyways. Never say never

 

[BPH]

You want to bang a mom who is a pedo? WTF?

 

[Beyond It]

I don’t discriminate. If she makes me hard…she’s in. I will never fall “in-love” with any of them.

 

[plumber]

of course the one without kids if EVERYTHING else is the same. EVERYTHING else will not be the same, many higher priority categories. The hard no on single mom is silly. yes its something to look at closely, but with all the possible problems its not the worst....

 

[MatureDJ]

Is this a trick question?

A single mommy is undateable. Full Stop.

 

[zekko]

Of course I'm taking the single woman with no experience, but I guess it's always a roll of the dice either way.

I was reading about Brigitte Bardot, and apparently she gave up her son to the father because she says she never wanted a child, never wanted to get pregnant, and thought of him as a tumor growing inside her. I found that kind of disappointing, honestly. I guess all women don't have the mothering instinct.

 

[The Duke]

Finding women without children is really difficult.
After 35/40, the market shrinks and there will be single mothers, or even women in unsatisfactory relationships ready to pack their bags.

For a Long term partner relationship, would you prefer a 32 yo single woman with no experience or a 32 yo single mother who already has experience and has demonstrated excellent qualities as a mother?

Those girls that want kids and are good moms make better long term partners. The ones that don't are less feminine, more selfish, and aren't going to support their man like they should.

As far as your question goes, the 32yo with no experience always concerns me because she might want experiences I don't want such as marriage and raising kids. The 32yo that has some experience already knows that Disney fantasy is made up of some bullschitt.

Always evaluate on a case by case basis.

 

[tesla8520]

@The Duke
I agree with you on this.
I'd also prefer a woman with experience with both children and marriage, but not a castaway, but someone who has actually had incompatibilities.

 

[zekko]

The 32yo that has some experience already knows that Disney fantasy is made up of some bullschitt.

The modern Disney fantasy would be more like two women marrying each other and adopting a baby.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I was reading about Brigitte Bardot, and apparently she gave up her son to the father because she says she never wanted a child, never wanted to get pregnant, and thought of him as a tumor growing inside her. I found that kind of disappointing, honestly. I guess all women don't have the mothering instinct.

The French are a strange breed.

 

[The Duke]

The modern Disney fantasy would be more like two women marrying each other and adopting a baby.

That's about right, Ole time marches on. They got a new concept rolled out. Lol

 

[Scaramouche]

The French are a strange breed.
Here's what Julius Caesar thought of them.....
The Gallic temperament is impetuous,unreliable,ingenuous,inconsistent……Brave but devoid of that stern temper that survives defeat….They are politically unstable and their plans follow an ever varying pattern of emotionalism….they are credulous and slaves to superstition…

Julius Caesar….De Bello Gallico.

 

[Desdinova]

After 35/40, the market shrinks and there will be single mothers, or even women in unsatisfactory relationships ready to pack their bags.

Why do you believe that you have to date someone in the same age bracket as yourself? Why aren't you dating younger women?

For a Long term partner relationship, would you prefer a 32 yo single woman with no experience or a 32 yo single mother who already has experience and has demonstrated excellent qualities as a mother?

Neither. They're all damaged as fvck.

I've been with my GF for over 10 years now. I met her when she was 20 years old and I was 35 (she pursued me for two years). She has no kids, but she helped me raise my son. She did an excellent job because her parenting decisions aligned with mine.

When you get a woman who's still young, she's a blank slate. She will abandon her own life and beliefs and jump aboard your ship. She will adopt whatever beliefs and morals that you have (for the most part). Her life becomes yours, but you have to be the one steering the ship and making all the decisions.

 

[BadBoy89]

I was reading about Brigitte Bardot, and apparently she gave up her son to the father because she says she never wanted a child, never wanted to get pregnant, and thought of him as a tumor growing inside her.

Yet she couldn't resist the father's charms.

 

[zekko]

Yet she couldn't resist the father's charms.

Well, I don't think she wanted to take up abstinence, she wanted consequence-free sex. And she didn't want to be a mother, she wanted to be the international sex symbol. Or at least that's what it sounds like to me.
She just died about six months ago, by the way.