Would you "forgive" and continue to be the husband to a wifey that got pregnant with another man's seed, and a different ethnicity at that?

[MatureDJ]

I was reading this, and it got me angry.

I Finally Took an Ancestry Test. The Results Are Even More Shocking Than I Expected.

Prudie says: “This is something I’d consider making my therapy practice’s specialty.”

slate.com

https://archive.ph/nfca8

My parents and siblings are all tall, light hair, blue eyes, and great athletes. I hit 5’4” in heels and fall over on my face half the time. I am the only one with very dark eyes and hair. My brother used to tease me that I was adopted, and my mother always insisted that I just took after her Italian grandmother. So in college, I did an ancestry test, and the results were I wasn’t Italian, but Hispanic. It was like gravity turned off.

My entire world was up ended and rearranged. I couldn’t face my mom so I went to my paternal grandmother. Her response was my mom had an affair, but my dad chose to forgive her. I was born very fair so he figured that I was his and didn’t want to battle out custody of my brothers. It wasn’t until I got older that it became obvious that I wasn’t his daughter. My dad insists that it doesn’t matter and I will always be his little girl, but he completely shuts down on the topic of finding my biological father. My mom claims she doesn’t remember the guy’s name and it just a “mistake.”

 

[Gamisch]

So what?

Ethnicity onky matter because if the child has tge same ethnicity as the cucked husband ,he can claim its his?

Right?...

 

[Barrister]

The answer is "no." The fact the child is of another ethnicity is irrelevant. If I am married to a woman and she gets impregnated by any man who isn't me that is Game Over on the relationship regardless of whether we have other children, etc.

Regarding the article you posted, you have to feel for the woman who finds out her father isn't really her father, at least biologically. I can't imagine the psychological mind fvck that would cause.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I could not take such an occurance personally, for the simple fact that I no longer operate under the delusion that loyalty out of anyone is absolute and guaranteed... We've all been betrayed, and we've all betrayed others, even if in mild ways. Call that "forgiveness", if you wish

From a policy standpoint, I'd still divorce such a gal though:

In this day and age, info like that is almost guaranteed to end up on Facebook or the like, and not appropriately penalizing such a sin reflects badly on the man who fails to do so

 

[BillyPilgrim]

So what?

Ethnicity onky matter because if the child has tge same ethnicity as the cucked husband ,he can claim its his?

Right?...

FWIW the article quoted the child as being upset, so there's your answer right there.

 

[Roober]

If a woman fvcks someone else, it's over.

I will move as quickly to end things as possible, which is usually easy becuase she would be living in my house and all separate accounts, and then I would wish her the best.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I was reading this, and it got me angry.

I Finally Took an Ancestry Test. The Results Are Even More Shocking Than I Expected.

Prudie says: “This is something I’d consider making my therapy practice’s specialty.”

slate.com

https://archive.ph/nfca8

I would not forgive, but I might raise the child under the condition that I had 100% custody and the sperm donor and “wife” had zero! No contact from sperm donor and all decision making and care (eg, medical, education, protection). I might also under special conditions remain in the same household to still have both of our respective families connected and have the child grow up in a two-parent home.

I may continue cooperating, co-parenting, and maintaining a household, but the original marital bargain would be broken.