Typical loser comment/ mindset of a modern male who views women as the ultimate price( and thus will lose)

[Gamisch]

Saw this reaction , was the top comment. And man..this is sad but simultaneously it describes how most men think nowadays.

THIS is how the average man feels. The apps don't work, going out is a waste of time, he probably doesn't do cold approach , no social circle, lacks the charisma to make a woman at work fall for him...

So he basically ends up giving up. He feels like life has no purpose because he can't get women...

Eventually he might find a woman who will run circlea around him and tme him to the cleaners. And he will stay and simp like a good sucker. Why? Because he BREATHES scarcity. Seen it happen way to often lately. Dudes simply roll over and play dead while living life in their prime...

Don't be this dude.

 

[Manure Spherian]

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Saw this reaction , was the top comment. And man..this is sad but simultaneously it describes how most men think nowadays.

THIS is how the average man feels. The apps don't work, going out is a waste of time, he probably doesn't do cold approach , no social circle, lacks the charisma to make a woman at work fall for him...

So he basically ends up giving up. He feels like life has no purpose because he can't get women...

Eventually he might find a woman who will run circlea around him and tme him to the cleaners. And he will stay and simp like a good sucker. Why? Because he BREATHES scarcity. Seen it happen way to often lately. Dudes simply roll over and play dead while living life in their prime...

Don't be this dude.

There has gotten to be less good women available since the sexual revolution. So there actually is scarcity, which “mindset” doesn’t alleviate.

 

[Gamisch]

There has gotten to be less good women available since the sexual revolution. So there actually is scarcity, which “mindset” doesn’t alleviate.

Do you think that
1. before the sexual rev. women were somehow better? Imo the " best time " quote on quote was during the 50's. But yeah, women didn't really loved that era thus they literally started a revolution to be freed...

2. So what's the endgame for OOP? I had this conversation multiple even numerous times the last couple years with friends family colleagues ect saying" you THINK you're missing a woman, but all you'll get is a agent of chaos in your boring ,stable life. The misery you feel without having a woman will be 10x AFTER she broke that illusion of happiness. "

 

[Manure Spherian]

Do you think that
1. before the sexual rev. women were somehow better? Imo the " best time " quote on quote was during the 50's. But yeah, women didn't really loved that era thus they literally started a revolution to be freed...

People talk about the 1950s as if this decade was the most consequential one in all of human history. I wonder why this decade is so frequently mentioned in conversation regarding sexuality. Meanwhile sexuality was regulated for thousands of years, else societies would burn to the ground.


2. So what's the endgame for OOP? I had this conversation multiple even numerous times the last couple years with friends family colleagues ect saying" you THINK you're missing a woman, but all you'll get is a agent of chaos in your boring ,stable life. The misery you feel without having a woman will be 10x AFTER she broke that illusion of happiness. "


Yes, a man will pay if he gets the wrong woman. He might even pay with loss of income, home, his kids, his car, and his professional license.

Many men also pay because of having no women, in the form of misery.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

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Saw this reaction , was the top comment. And man..this is sad but simultaneously it describes how most men think nowadays.

THIS is how the average man feels. The apps don't work, going out is a waste of time, he probably doesn't do cold approach , no social circle, lacks the charisma to make a woman at work fall for him...

So he basically ends up giving up. He feels like life has no purpose because he can't get women...

Eventually he might find a woman who will run circlea around him and tme him to the cleaners. And he will stay and simp like a good sucker. Why? Because he BREATHES scarcity. Seen it happen way to often lately. Dudes simply roll over and play dead while living life in their prime...

Don't be this dude.

These men are lost. Sadly it's an entire generation for the most part.

 

[plumber]

generally many men want women to like and approve of them based on what they want to be liked for. and also excused for what they are to lazy to do.

red pill ideas are perfect in that they reset this false narrative that men tell themself. and the truth will set them free.

after all of that... it becomes really clear that the way humans are designed, not so many men are actually needed or wanted. it is competition and like or or not; it is that way.

just center self worth on self, not on a woman... or a man...

problem is not loving a woman, problem is needing her love...

food for thought. if all the other men are gone... you will have no trouble with women. think about it....

 

[BackInTheGame78]

generally many men want women to like and approve of them based on what they want to be liked for. and also excused for what they are to lazy to do.

red pill ideas are perfect in that they reset this false narrative that men tell themself. and the truth will set them free.

after all of that... it becomes really clear that the way humans are designed, not so many men are actually needed or wanted. it is competition and like or or not; it is that way.

just center self worth on self, not on a woman... or a man...

problem is not loving a woman, problem is needing her love...

food for thought. if all the other men are gone... you will have no trouble with women. think about it....

Most men spend too much of their time in the pursuit of bullsh!t.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Black hole is a pretty good metaphor for most women. Sucks you in, and there is no return.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Black hole is a pretty good metaphor for most women. Sucks you in, and there is no return.

I'm in my 40s now Brother, what do you tell most of your family members who keeps asking you when are you going to 'settle down'? lol

 

[Gamisch]

Black hole is a pretty good metaphor for most women. Sucks you in, and there is no return.

Yet most men willingly dive head first into the black hole.

With this mentality there will be no room for the proper vetting process. This man will wife up the first piece of p00sy he gets. And she WILL hurt him...

 

[Gamisch]

I'm in my 40s now Brother, what do you tell most of your family members who keeps asking you when are you going to 'settle down'? lol

Be a 40 y.o man. A grown man.

Why would you be afraid to share your personal philosophy? You tell them that you prefer peace over chaos, and that you don't believe the fairytale.

Same goes for religious or political views. Be your own man, with his own views. What else you gonna do, wait till your 70 to finally be unapologetically yourself?

 

[Gamisch]

generally many men want women to like and approve of them based on what they want to be liked for. and also excused for what they are to lazy to do.

red pill ideas are perfect in that they reset this false narrative that men tell themself. and the truth will set them free.

after all of that... it becomes really clear that the way humans are designed, not so many men are actually needed or wanted. it is competition and like or or not; it is that way.

just center self worth on self, not on a woman... or a man...

problem is not loving a woman, problem is needing her love...

food for thought. if all the other men are gone... you will have no trouble with women. think about it....

The irony is that most men won't experience real dedication untill they let go of the illusions.

Imo every man should experience the following dynamics;
- rejection. Harsh rejection because of your looks , character, lack of manliness.
- friend zone. To learn from close up how women can be committed to NOT wanting you while stringing you along
- getting cheated on. To learn how devious women can be.
-cohabitation. To break the illusion that a woman will be your servant/ new mom. To learn that endless sex is an illusion.


Add the following dynamics to the list
- be a hook up% bootycall. To learn how some women just want sex.
- be a player. To learn how energy consuming it is to juggle multiple relationships at once.
- be a traveler. To learn how much leverage you can have when your currency goes a longer way.
- sleep with multiple hb9,s to discover that hb7 might be way better for you...and that the juice isn't ( always) worth the squeeze.
- be her obsession. Having a woman obsessed with you, unable to let you go.

After all of this a man can create the right attitude and understanding of how women work. Once he understands that, he will have the right attitude and abundance mindset to be around women. The art is to recognise what goes on and to adjust accordingly. Sometimes you gotta jump ship, regardless of " how close " you got. But that takes tons of experience, self love and having a vision that stretches way beyond surface level thinking.

 

[Divorced w 3]

The person probably has a unique set of interests that would require them to work a little harder at finding the right connection. It sounds like he has money, perhaps he would be best served trying to us a professional match making service.

 

[plumber]

The irony is that most men won't experience real dedication untill they let go of the illusions.

Imo every man should experience the following dynamics;
- rejection. Harsh rejection because of your looks , character, lack of manliness.
- friend zone. To learn from close up how women can be committed to NOT wanting you while stringing you along
- getting cheated on. To learn how devious women can be.
-cohabitation. To break the illusion that a woman will be your servant/ new mom. To learn that endless sex is an illusion.


Add the following dynamics to the list
- be a hook up% bootycall. To learn how some women just want sex.
- be a player. To learn how energy consuming it is to juggle multiple relationships at once.
- be a traveler. To learn how much leverage you can have when your currency goes a longer way.
- sleep with multiple hb9,s to discover that hb7 might be way better for you...and that the juice isn't ( always) worth the squeeze.
- be her obsession. Having a woman obsessed with you, unable to let you go.

After all of this a man can create the right attitude and understanding of how women work. Once he understands that, he will have the right attitude and abundance mindset to be around women. The art is to recognise what goes on and to adjust accordingly. Sometimes you gotta jump ship, regardless of " how close " you got. But that takes tons of experience, self love and having a vision that stretches way beyond surface level thinking.

yes. agree.

 

[BaronOfHair]

OP is the equivalent of someone who lives for work

 

[BadBoy89]

These men are lost.

How does he get found?

 

[zekko]

So he basically ends up giving up. He feels like life has no purpose because he can't get women...

I don't think it sounds like he's giving up, but it sounds like he's thinking about it. Really, that last sentence about losing reasons to continue with life is the only real troublesome one. Other than that, he seems to be continuing to do what he needs to do. Clearly, he's frustrated, and he's certainly not the first guy on the forum to experience that. He shouldn't need a woman in his life, but I can't really fault him for wanting one.

 

[Gamisch]

I don't think it sounds like he's giving up, but it sounds like he's thinking about it. Really, that last sentence about losing reasons to continue with life is the only real troublesome one. Other than that, he seems to be continuing to do what he needs to do. Clearly, he's frustrated, and he's certainly not the first guy on the forum to experience that. He shouldn't need a woman in his life, but I can't really fault him for wanting one.

The problem is that we as men among each other can have sympathy, but the OOP won't benefit from male sympathy.

He wants a woman, but judging from his post it's the women who are ignoring him or " make it difficult " for him. And it's also women who won't feel any sympathy for him. The harsh truth is ; women want winners, hence why he feels like a loser.

I understand all to well that he wants women. But he doesn't understand that he needs to go after what he wants. The ironiy of life is you can have all your shyte together and yet you won't be able to buy love...

 

[Mike32ct]

The problem is that we as men among each other can have sympathy, but the OOP won't benefit from male sympathy.

He wants a woman, but judging from his post it's the women who are ignoring him or " make it difficult " for him. And it's also women who won't feel any sympathy for him. The harsh truth is ; women want winners, hence why he feels like a loser.

I understand all to well that he wants women. But he doesn't understand that he needs to go after what he wants. The ironiy of life is you can have all your shyte together and yet you won't be able to buy love...

Agree. Most of all, I think the “go after what you want” message is often lost.

I grew up hearing the (outdated by 1990) dating advice “It happens when you least expect it.”

Even today, you have normie guys who downplay any work they put in to finding their current gf. It’s just “I’m dating xyz chick.” They always want to imply it was effortless and “just happened” out of ego.

Fair enough. But then it leaves other guys (like mentioned in the OP) confused and frustrated when it doesn’t “just happen” for them.

 

[Gamisch]

Agree. Most of all, I think the “go after what you want” message is often lost.

I grew up hearing the (outdated by 1990) dating advice “It happens when you least expect it.”

Even today, you have normie guys who downplay any work they put in to finding their current gf. It’s just “I’m dating xyz chick.” They always want to imply it was effortless and “just happened” out of ego.

Fair enough. But then it leaves other guys (like mentioned in the OP) confused and frustrated when it doesn’t “just happen” for them.

For a man like OOP its important to realize that "just happened " will still be a numbers game. You gotta be around women, and ready for action .

Imo women are FAR better at this particular part of the game. Women ofcourse get approach, approved, talked at ect so their volume is way higher.

Another thing ,like @zekko mentioned, he seems to have his shyte together already. If onky he knew that having your shute together triumphs sleeping with ( a lot) of women. In this day and age it's way harder to position yourself in such a way that you got a steady job. The word is FULL of women who know how to make themselves look pretty even if they're worthless.